Women want what they can’t have
This is an issue that seems to elude most men’s understanding. It’s very simple and very powerful. If a woman sees a man talking to other beautiful women, her attraction to him starts to increase. But why is this?
1. Status – women are jealous of women that are more beautiful than them. If a woman can steal you from a more beautiful women, she will feel her status has increased.
2.Power – powerful men get beautiful women. If a beautiful woman wants you, then you must have power. Therefore she wants you to.
3. Mystery – even if she has already talked to you and dismissed you, if a woman sees other women talking to you and smiling she will start to wonder what it is that she doesn’t know.
4. Safety – if other women are friends with you or comfortable around you, then you must not be creepy and weird. This is actually very powerful.
All of these elements come together to build up her attraction for you. So even when you are talking to a beautiful woman in a bar and it’s not going well, just smile and act like it is when you walk away. Other people will make assumptions that benefit you. Believe me, women are always watching.
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I agree with the concept and the reality of it as it plays out in life. However, I always recoil at women who do these things. To me a woman who responds to you after you've started talking to other women or women who want you because you are unattainable in some way stinks of lower intrinsic value. They avoid pain at the expense of their own joy and pleasure out of fear. It is only after someone else has paid the price to stick their neck out that they want to come around. No, I respect the girl who stuck her neck out 100 times more than these type girls. It shows character and worth.
Women like that remind me of rouge dogs. They don't have the courage to face their fears and obtain a man for themselves but they have all the courage in the world to steal what someone else has taken the time and effort to obtain and "validate". It is apparent that women "validate". It is also apparent that the women who validate rely heavily on their extrinsic value to do so. If their beauty were removed they could not cope with life. They have no sense of worth without it.
Girls like that show you they have no value at all while praising my value. I don't want them validating me. It is creepy and pathetic and I do not do anything more than have very quick and highly selfish sex with women like that. They will never have me as a husband or boyfriend and certainly not a friend. It's been my experience that women like this treat themselves and everyone around them poorly. Unfortunately a lot of women are this way and they get no respect at all from men while complaining about men constantly. A complete hottie turns into one ugly b**** after she starts that crap. I don't put up with it. I'll take a girl with real value and average looks any day over a girl with these problems. I do it because I love pleasure and I hate pain and these girls are nothing but pain to themselves and everyone around them and in return they give very little pleasure.
Advice to the guys….. Stay away from these kinds of things for relationships. If you want to hump em and dump em that's different and just plain smart. Otherwise, grow a brain and ditch the loser chick before she cluster f**** your world.
Girls if you are this way learn to understand that you have value as a person and everything else you have to offer is like icing on the cake, not the cake itself. Oh and beware, if you are this way I'll be the most unattainable s.o.b. in your world. You'll work your butt off to finally get the worst and quickest lay of your life, whereupon I'll be gone. I'm not messing around with you.
Sam, I’ve had many experiences with girls who don’t actually realise that this ‘wanting what they cannot obtain’ is simply a part of their nature.
Besides, this is a part of just their initial attraction to a man. Certainly, that would fade after a while but if the guy is a good one and the girl feels genuine attraction to his character as well as his physique and presence, then of course she’ll stick with him!
Basically, girls don’t act like this one purpose, in my experiences, anyway. It’s just a subconscious mentality.
It is the subconscious motors we need to understand for effective seduction. Roll on Paladin