Last night was another classic rave night with my club crew.  YumYum, Iceberg and I hit up Hidden in south London for a free hard house party.  Yums had some reservations about the party being full of shaved head troublemakers and I had a feeling there would be good vibes and cute girls in cute costumes.  Turns out we were both right.  There were a lot of creepy people there, but also a lot of cool ones.  The tunes were hard as hell and more than I could normally deal with, but I took a pill and it all worked out in the end.

Everyone was in a really friendly vibe and we just had a good time.  About an hour into the party I see two beautiful girls on the dancefloor right next to the decks, just going for it.  Now since I am really into dancing, I am into freedom of expression.  When people just dance to dance.  That is my scene.  My home.  So these girls were exaclty the kind of girls I got into game to meet.  I’m focused on my boys though, so we have a proper stomp kinda near the girls and then we drift away without thinking about it….

We go outside for a smoke and see them by the heat lamp.  Boom.  We open them in a super casual way.  It didn’t even feel like opening.  This is what I’ve done thousands of time.  We roll into conversation and my girl is just super cool.  She’s really pretty and got good vibes.  We chat about this and that.  She brings up loving travel and other things.  We keep overhearing YumYum.  He is saying the weirdest stuff.  But somehow the girl is loving it.  I learned a lot off him last night.  Talk about not caring.  It is really powerful.  So we chat to the girls for a while and Iceberg is just rolling with it and hanging with us.  Normally 3 guys and 2 girls would be weird.  But this wasn’t a pickup club and none of us had that vibe.  It was just like a group of cool people partying.

We go back inside together for a stomp in the laser room.  I love lasers and at some point texted my house mate demanding to know why we don’t have a laser in our apartment.  Hehe.  So the girls go to the bathroom and I just have a good stomp with the boys.  I didn’t even see them come back in.  We see them by the stage getting hit on by two dudes in matching black vests.  I really just don’t care.  I need to care even less though.  We go up and dance with them a bit and ignore the dudes.  The girls just became part of our good time.

Then I forget what happened, but we split up from them for a while again.  We split up and ran into them 4-5 times.  It’s so good to be in a club doing what I love.  So that even when I’m not talking to girls I can have a really good time.  To be honest if it had been a trance club I wouldn’t have even talked to the girls.  I’m so into that music.  But it was a cool time and we would drift and catch them and dance a bit.  Then drift off and do our thing.  We just went to the room that had the music we liked, rather than the girls in it.

We go outside to talk to our two girls and are sitting snuggled up with them to stay warm.  They confess that Yum’s girl has a scottish fetish and mine has a beard fetish.  Sweet!  I am not acting like my normal self.  I basically didn’t do any kino on my girl.  I was in just such a mellow mood.  I really liked talking to this girl.  She kept filling the silences.  I respect normal conversation.  Plus she’s ridden in a helicopter.  I feel it’s time to split the girls up so I take mine in for a stomp.  We are on the dancefloor and find Iceberg to join us.  We can see Yum getting dragged up the stairs to the balcony by his girl and suddenly she just pulls him down onto the couch.  We start laughing.  Eventually all 5 of us are dancing again then the girls go off to the toilets.

I might have this out of order.  If that’s the case blame the drugs.  But I am dancing with my girl on the dancfloor and the vest guys show up.  They start trying to game our girls and man do I not care.  One tries to amog Yums by saying he smells.  Yums couldn’t care less.  They physically get between us and the girls.  Now I find agression boring and Iceberg is huge.  But whatever.  We are in our own world and ignore the dudes.  I see the guy take off his sunglasses to put on my girl.  He takes a pic of her with her camera.  I’m like oh she is stealing those.  I come up to her a little later and we start grinding right there.  Safe…

We get distracted by music and change rooms some.  We see the girls in the smoking section later and we are snuggled on the ground.  She asks if Yum likes her friend, because she really likes him.  Safe.  I say of course and that I’m just talking to her so he can talk to his girl.  A little push pull.  But it wasn’t strategic.  It was me being my normal jokey self.  Then my girl starts taking pictures and I mention how every dude has taken pictures with them, but not me yet.  So we take 3 photos.  The last one is me in almost kiss position.  Then we do kiss and she is a really sweet kisser.  It was really nice at first there was no tongue and slowly she worked towards it.  It was refreshing.  When I pull away I say “interesting.”  She goes “what?”  I immediately say “interesting good!”  Phew. I explain why I liked it so we kiss some more.  It’s nice.  Then vest boy shows up to ask for his glasses back.  She compains to me about how he wouldn’t leave her alone and he only talked to her about drugs and not normal stuff.  All into my knowledge bank.

We tell the girls we are gonna leave with Iceberg, but then we decide to stay with them for another hour for the main dj.  They dance near the front and Yums and I dance on our own.  The girls didn’t even know we were there.  It really built up their attraction.  His nonchalance is powerful.  I kept wanting to go dance with the girls but he wouldn’t let me.  So with 5 minutes to go we join them at the front for the last song.  Right after they run off so Yums and I slowly go get our coats.  He thinks they’ve gone home, but I know they got stuff in the cloak room so they hit the toilets on the way out.  Ha!  I’ve finally understood something about girls.  I feel so smart today.

We wait outside the exit and have a smoke.  The girls come find us and we jump in a cab to mine.  Unfortunately my girl has to work today.  So they have to take a train back to Oxford right away.  We don’t even go inside my apartment.  My girl tells me that if she comes in she’ll never leave.  It was sweet.  We kissed a lot in the taxi and on the walk to the station.  She pointed out that I always make a noise after we kiss.  Like mmmm.  Delicious noise you know?  So then I am like ok let me try again.  So we kiss really long and then I make no noise.  She is like you want to don’t you!  And I was like No!…….ok Yes!  We are giggling and snuggling.

Then they are off on the train home.  I only got my girl’s number on the way to the station.  I decided when I met them to stick to my plan of not getting numbers.  I know Yum’s girl really likes him so hopefully things will go smooth.  They were really cool, pretty girls that like to do what I like to do.  And I am into that.