So for our last night in Sweden and Max birthday, we decided to hit up the only cool club in Stockholm on a Sunday Night. Cafe Opera. We accidentally get there too early. Everyone is drunk from drinking a bag of wine on the way to the club, except for me. It looked to much like a colostomy bag for me….
So we go to another bar and just chill out. NLP joins us and we just chat a bit. There aren’t any cute girls around, so we don’t have to stress over anything. I still feel invincible for breaking through my barriers the night before. Beeballer and I go outside and he opens a nice little group of four girls. Nothing spectacular. Turns out the obstacle studies at the university where I want to teach next year, so I get her number and she promises to show me around on Monday. Then we run outa there, but she texts me 2 or 3 times that night. Monday she never texts back. Se la vi.
Then we head out to Cafe Opera. There are a couple of beautiful girls in there and a VIP area in the middle of the room filled with try hards. We start opening sets and talking to girls. My first set goes ok with Beeballer. They go to the bathroom and say they will grab us before they go out to smoke. They come back around but Beeballer is talking to new girls. We lose them or whatever. Every other girl we talk to is really mean. It was really surprising.
I know some guys really react well to girls being tough to open, but for me it’s just not worth it. Every other girl I’ve talked to in Sweden has at least been a really nice girl. For me the moment a girl is really rude, her value drops through the floor. So everytime a girl was really rude I just started laughing at her. I haven’t had so many blowouts in months. And girls are almost never that rude to me. I ended up having a really good time.
I danced some and people were staring and it was cool. It’s great to be to free and just having a good time.
I have had a major inner game breakthrough. My self confidence is just really high. I don’t feel a need to impress anybody and I finally realized that I can get anybody I want to. It’s easy to say, but I finally believe it.
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