So there I am with NLP, no Soul and two models.
We bounce up to this Irish pub. Why on earth do I end up in two Irish pubs in Sweden?? I share some Nachos with Troublemaker. Finally, their two other friends show up. A half-Japanese, half-Brazilian model and a black Swedish model. I just start chatting to them all. We are surrounded by so many orbiters. Guys who have known these girls for ages and had no idea how to get out of the friend zone. They were all taller, more tattoed and more muscly than me. It just didn’t matter. NLP and me were just dominating, but I needed some wingmen for isolation. I was texting and waiting for Max to show up. He finally did at half eleven or something. While I’m waiting for him, I bring in one insta-wing. This strange, but funny magician dude.
So we are rocking out, but I’m kinda nervous. Surrounded by models and outnumbered. I was really outside my comfort zone. We are having a good time. I go outside to smoke with Troublemaker and stick my tongue in her face a little bit. Why not? She is a few inches taller than me and wearing heels too. This is the month of tall women for Paladin. So I get the number of one of the other girls and then I start working the black model. I’ll just call her Tyra. I’m too lazy for an intricate nickname today.
She was being really quiet the whole time and avoiding the conversation. So I just confronted her and said why are you being so quiet? She told me she was really high. Fairplay. We chatted and I speed-number closed her. That’s the end of her involvement in this post, skip ahead to Night 4 for more about her.
Eventually Max gets there. We are all chilling and working on maintaining the whole situation. The models all decide they wanna bounce to clubs. They are total party girls that want to be it girls. I normally don’t chill with girls like this so it’s a real learning process. I need to spend more time with 5.0. He really knows what to do with high end club girls.
So three of the girls run off and Daughter sticks around. Max and I take her downstairs in the bar to chat more. I am trying to build rapport and steal all of Soul’s value. Max keeps breaking rapport. We chat chat. About what I don’t remember. Then the bar is closing so we decide to hit another club. It turns into a shenanigan. She has to swing by her house to change shoes because her feet hurt. It’s like 100 meters from there to the club, so I’m thinking easy bounce. Fine.
We run into NLP and the magician upstairs and they decide to go with us. Now we have 5 people. So she orders a 5 people taxi. Then NLP realizes it’s not a good situation. 4 guys and 1 girl on a Thursday. Don’t worry he’ll be back tomorrow night.
So we get a 5person taxi, which is more expenisive in Sweden. But now there are only four of us. A ton of Swedish shouting starts happening. I have no idea what’s up. Max is arguing with the cab driver over the fare etc. He tells me later. I think he blamed Daughter pretty hard. We got the magician to pay the cab fare.
We get to her house and she runs upstairs to change shoes. I didn’t even finagle my way into her apartment. On the way to the club I pull her back and take her arm and chat some. I was like um you were so sweet earlier, but now you’re being kinda mean. For me niceness is super important in a girl. She was like sorry my period just hit and I’m in pain. I empathized with her and gave her a hug. She said thanks, that’s all I wanted. From then on she was back in her sweetness mode. Although she did tell me she didn’t like magicians. She thinks they are all pedophiles.
We get into the club and it’s ok. There really aren’t any cute girls going on. I am kinda struggling with maintaining value. I think that’s just a way of saying, I wanted to stay comfortable. As soon as I lose my sense of self I fall off track. I talked a little to Max along the way, as he is a jedi with girls. I kept being afraid I was falling off track. I realized that I need to not do that. I lost a girl that way recently. So I grab her and make her dance with me downstairs.
I hesitated with my escalation a lot. Sometimes my escalation is so jerky. When it needs to be a smooth slow progression. I think I went for a kiss at some point, but I can’t remember anymore. We chatted and kept bouncing around the club. At one point she asked why Max didn’t like her. I dunno what I said. I just cut the thread. I tried to get her to take me home and she was like I’m going home alone. She was talking about how she wanted to get a kebab on the way home and eat it and wake up covered in the food.
So we went outside and split up and as I was walking off with Max I grabbed her for the kiss. I really let this one slip through my fingers. Throughout the night she had dropped sexual seeds and I just didn’t push hard enough. I shoulda brought more Shane State to the table. I just wasn’t in control of myself enough. I can make lots of excuses, but it was totally my fault. Se la vi.
Max and I had a one hour walk home and then I watched him eat a kebab. It was a really good chat. It’s so interesting to finally meet someone in person that I’ve been talking to online for 6 months. It’s really funny how when girls ask he just says we met playing video games online. Daughter actually knew our game and talked about how her sister plays. It was all interesting. It was a night of ups and downs. But the point is I had a lot of adventures and took some pictures along the way.
I’m also doing another Vercetti challenge. I haven’t beat off since Tuesday.
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