So I went out Friday and Saturday night coaching. I will write about Friday night with Helicase soon enough. But for now I wanna write about Saturday since I met a cool girl and got her pic. I went out with Cajun and Kisser and the guys from TSB, as well as three students. The TSB guys were cool as hell and it was really nice to spend time in the field with Cajun. It was really casual and I spent most of the night just winging one student. I can’t really remember a lot of the details. He opened the set and was doing alright, but he needed a wing to really open doors for him. I think because he was new he didn’t think he deserved the cutest girl of the group. I wasn’t that into her. I dunno. Everyone else thought she was really cute, but if you’re on the Lounge you get to decide for yourself.
So I entered the set and I just worked on vibing with the girl. We chatted for a long time, which allowed me to screen for niceness. Which she passed with flying colors. It was nice to meet an American girl that I actually liked. It was nice. Most American girls in London drive me insane. I’m starting to think it’s the one’s that leave America that I hate. This girl was a nice, sweet LA girl through and through. So on an intellectual level and personality level I really enjoyed her company.
I had the realization that I’m finally getting to a level where it can just be easy. I didn’t have to run any routines. I just focused on staying high value and moving forward. I didn’t focus on the exctraction which was my main mistake. I was trying to watch out for my student, who simply didn’t have enough value to close a girl he was clearly better looking than. Even her two friends told me he wasn’t cute enough. At the same time as my girl kept telling me I have beautiful eyes. Now I recently heard a thing that when a girl can’t find anything else nice about your body, she will compliment your eyes. I’ve been thinking about this a lot, as I have heard eye-based compliments for most of my life. I have blue eyes. So I’m not so sure that it’s an insult. Either way my girl made a couple of other compliments that I don’t remember any more as a way of expressing her attraction for me.
All of this was happening about one foot away from Sinn, who happens to run extreme routine game. So I kind of enjoyed a little demo of my own sitting there. Unfortunately, when you’re sitting to the side, routines can sound really cheesy and my girl kept listening in and laughing. I mean it totally worked on his girl and he took her game. I guess I was just expecting to hear something life changing or amazing, or at least a routine I didn’t already know. But it was not to be. I mean pure routine-based game really works and that is the whole point, but at a certain point it just didn’t feel genuine for me anymore.
I have realized that as long as I talk about the things that I want to, I can run tight game. I mean I talked to this girl about growing up in LA, how normally I don’t click with American girls, how I wonder how long it will take my eyebrow piercing to heal….and other stuff. I mean maybe it’s boring but it’s what is on my mind and that makes it genuine. I still have a long way to progress in game and life, but at least I’m enjoying the journey. Once again the only thing that got between me and the girl was logistics. I didn’t have a phone in LA so I had to put her number into Rokker’s. And I couldn’t find him the next day til it was too late to try and call her. Haha. At least that’s kinda funny.
When I finished with the girl my student ran away from the set. Which is my personal pet peeve about students. For some reason they feel shame or whatever when a set dies or they think they got blown out and they bolt. Now I go to the gym and hit the treadmill, but I will be damned if I’m running through a club. So my kid actually left the club and went to find the rest of our team…. without me. So I look around the club and see that everyone I came with is gone. But Rokker and TenMagnet are there. So I just chill with them and catch a ride back to the hotel. I was pretty ill so I just wanted to get into bed.
Oh ya and I think I kind of kissed the girl on the cheek. It was nothing special. I didn’t run a kiss close pattern. Really I was just trying to match the pace of my student. Anyways, enjoy.
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