As I’ve mentioned before I’m really into custom pickup. I have been watching the L word like mad for the past two weeks. All I can say is that if you’re not watching this show you are wasting your time. It is insanely powerful. It’s about a bunch of smoking hot lesbians and how they interact. There are so many lessons about how women love banging as much as men, maybe more, frame control, sexuality and sensuality. I have been studying Shane, the master lpua on Soul’s recomendation. So last night I ran a combination of Shane-game and Seb-game (Seb Drake). All I can say is that it’s powerful as hell.
I slowed down my speech, showed as much chest as I could and wore no flair. I just walked slow and sexually and just used a really powerful frame. I was in conversations and just pushing comfort hard. I’m way past flipping attraction switches with comedy. It’s like breathing for me, but it’s not enough to close. Sexuality and dominance are what I’m working on. Just a raw state of not-caring. And I will break down my pickup last night. I number-closed a 10. And if you know me I rarely throw that number around. But on my scale raw ten. She was insanely skinny. Brunette. Expressive eyes. Nineteen. Wearing a tiny skirt with a tiny top. Her lil tummy out. She was exquisite. But looks aren’t enough. She was popular and interesting and friendly.
It was deep in the night and I was well into state. Two glasses of white wine and a smile on my face. I’m in the local dirty club in Guildford with Sheik and Keychain. Sheik went home and Keys was outside. I was going through the tiny door to get to the smoking section. I start talking to this really cute girl. I don’t really remember how I opened. I used one of my stock openers. Something like wow it’s crowded or don’t cut the line. Or maybe I said something about English people and their lines. No. That’s not it at lal. Now I remember. Two guys were grabbing each other or fighting. I turn to my lovely girl and ask if they are fighting over her. She says that would never happen. So I offer to fight the girl she’s with. Comedy Gold. I immediately back down. Saying her lady friend looks really tough. The friend loves it and disappears. I start talking to her and running super slow kino. Touch. Take it away. Slow…
We are the universe. Within two minutes we are holding hands. She drags me all over the club. Attractions was centuries ago. I’m into qualification. Asking about her travels and adventures. She just returned from Costa Rica. She is so brave. And so tan. She introduces me to so many friends. Girls. Boys. I don’t try to impress any of them. I am Shane. And Shane is. Eventually we are alone with one of her friends. Who is winging Keychain’s target. She says she has to rescue her friend from him. I don’t want to attach our values at this point. So I move her to a corner and start building comfort. We are standing at a rail looking over the crowd.
Keychain breaks into our universe to ask where Sheik is. Her state breaks. She remembers that we are looking for her friend to deliver a ticket. Or maybe it’s just a piece of paper. I try not to be affected. Shane is unaffected. She drags me inside. All over the bar. To the dancefloor. I meet more and more of her friends. They are like leaves in the wind. They all love her. She takes me to the dancefloor. We find her friend. She delivers her paper. Her friend from the fight joke comes to say hi and remind me that we met before. She wants me to offer approval by remembering her. I try. But for me there were only two people in the club. The lovely lady and myself. Her friends dance her in a circle and are between us. It’s decision time. Do I start worrying about value or just not care? I close my eyes and dance a bit. I am Shane. I grab her hand at an opportune moment and spin her and dip her. We have a good chemistry. Her friends are between us again. There is an ocean of people. I decide enough is enough.
I walk away to find Keys. Of course now he can’t be found. I get a text. He too has abandoned me. I am alone in a club with hundreds of sets. An ocean of sexuality. Sensuality. Ebbing and flowing. Attraction and alcohol. I decide that I don’t want to run a new set. It’s too late for me. I am tired. I return. Find my girl and tell her that all my friends have gone home. Her kind eyes lock onto mine. I tell her I will leave now too. She asks for my last name to facebook me. Shane doens’t do facebook. I take her number. Double cheek kiss. We are surrounded by her friends. Seb is socially calibrated. I take my leave. She returns to her ocean of dancing friends.
It was a really successful night for me on a lot of levels. My mistakes were not overcoming the state break and building deep comfort. I should have stayed and run more sets. Returned to her later. To build that deeper connection. I was really upset by some other things so. although my shallow waters were placid my deeper waters were in turmoil. I have a pic off her facebook that I’ll post on the Lounge.
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