A lot of guys think that it’s hard to meet women in London.  They think its easier in America or smaller towns etc.  It just isn’t guys.  It’s time to stop making excuses and get out there.  London is great.  You can travel together much easier and you never have to deal with car logistics.  The man thing you need to do is realize that normal conversation is key.  You just want to talk to women the way you talk to your friends.  Don’t put a woman on a pedestal.  When people recognize me and act strange around me, it makes me want to run away.  So just walk up and say something simple and friendly.  “Are you having a nice time?”  is a great way to start a conversation at the bar.

Now is the time to meet people outdoors as well.  You can simply start a conversation in the park or walking down the street.  For now, let’s focus on mindsets instead of the mechanics of the interaction.  Just realize that no woman woke up thinking “I hope I don’t get swept off my feet today” (That’s from Hitch)

So go out into the sunshine.  Nobody ever found love sitting at home.  Meeting women on the internet isn’t nearly as fun as meeting women in real life.  The first step is to start talking to strangers.  So go places where you feel comfortable.  Speed dating can be a lot of fun.  It is a really good way to practice meeting new people.

Join a club.  It is a lot easier to talk to people who have similar hobbies or interests.  Whethere you join a running club or start rock climbing, the most important step is to get out there.  Just commit to turning off that TV and the computer.  They are draining the life out of you.  I recently went to a talk in central London.  I thought that it would be interesting to hear someones take on the economy and having a successful life.  I met a really great girl there. I just walked up and said hello.

So believe in yourself and get out there.