Golden Mirror
So I was just testing out some social circle game on a friend of my housemate and this girl was talking about a bad date and men not understanding women. I took the opportunity to talk a little about how most men don’t understand women yada yada and I talked a little bit about social dynamics. She was talking about bf stuff and how to tell if a guy would be a good one and I dropped about 10 seconds of golden mirror. She just melted. I cut it off and said that’s what I would say if I were into you. It was like playing with plutonium. I mean I dig on this girl but I could feel it affecting me too. That stuff is no joke! So take all the warnings seriously. Do not run deep comfort unless you are ready to change your life. I am still in awe of the power of deep comfort right now…my mind just wandered off.
What is this "golden mirror"…you don't talk about it at all, only that it creates comfort
Hey. That’s a great question. You know how in Snow White the witch just wants the mirror to say she’s amazing? That’s like a golden mirror. So you describe a woman the way she wants to be seen, rather than how she is right now. For example, if a girl wants to be a singer you say something like: I don’t really see you as a waitress. I dunno but when I look at you I just see you on stage and the crowd is just connecting with you.
So just really say you see her the way she dreams of being seen.