So we met up for our first date tonight.  She texted back and forth a few times to confirm.  She lives in deep west London and I live in the east.  About an hour apart.  We meet at the station near my house.  Hey I’m no fool man.

She texts me an hour before our date to let me know that she can only see me for an hour.  I text back that there is no way she’s cancelling our date.  When we meet she makes us go to a bar right next to the station, instead of my fav one that’s a short walk away.  She is really alpha and tries to control her universe.  Needless to say our date lasted 2.5 hours not 1.  I have power in this universe too.

We go into the bar and she buys me a drink right away.  She looks amazing and I find us a spot to chat near the bar and even a stool for her in this crowded yuppie joint.  There are about 3 girls in the room besides her.  Needless to say she had all of my attention.  We talk about a ton of things and I tell her how cool her confidence is.  She has super tight inner game, a really strong sense of self and I tell her how sexy that is.  She tells me that we’re not on a date and I laugh and tell her that we are and that I think it’s going well.

She’s really impressed by my read of her.  She asks me why if her inner game is so tight can she not find a good man?  I point out that she already has and then say that most guys are intimidated by her looks.  So from the 1% who aren’t scared of beautiful women, most will be pretty boys with no personality.  She is beautiful, smart, funny and interesting.  Most guys can’t handle all of that and her frame will crush theirs.  So really she’s lucky that she met me when she did.

I wish I could remember every piece of our two hour conversation.  It was just enthralling.  She at one point told me the three reasons we can’t date, including the fact that we are too similar.  It was so much like the old Mystery routine.  She did so many things that were like routines, but naturally.  I am at a level now where I can interact with a girl like this and not have my frame crumble.

I asked her the most adventurous thing she did in the last 6 months and she told me about losing her virginity at 27.  It was a pretty intense reveal and I didn’t have a powerful answer.  So I just listened and later she asked me about the last girl I had sex with.  I told her it was a Korean girl then I changed the subject and she was like don’t change the subject.  Tell me when etc.  I was like oh, I didn’t mean to change the subject it was Saturday night.  This girl isn’t looking for a bf so I think that info put us on the same page.

We went outside for a smoke and I had my back to the wall.  She was chatting and I said look if we don’t kiss right now I’m gonna throw myself in front of a train tonight.  She replied with I hope you had a good life then.  And then God intervened.  A bird pooped right on her hand.  It was awesome.  I couldn’t stop laughing and like all girls, she had wipes in her purse to clean it off with.  I was like see what happens when you don’t kiss me?  The universe is on my side.

I was like you are never gonna forget this date.  I told her about when a girl puked on me at my bootcamp.  I didn’t mention the bootcamp part but it made her feel better I think.  She was like will you touch my hand after that?  I was like I feel weird. I just saw a bird poop on you and I still want to kiss you.  What is wrong with me?  What have you done to me?

We went back inside and chatted more for the rest of our 2.5 hours.  I wish I could remember every part, but of course I can’t.  I really focused on what Soul has been teaching me about rapport and tried to have her do all the talking.  I still have a long way to go.  But I did well I think.  I am really attracted to her personality and we talked about how a challenge can be fun. I am glad I have 2 other women in my life to keep me from obsessing about this girl. I can’t see her again til next thursday or friday because of the holidays.

I texted her on my way home that I think she’s beautiful but it’s her intelligence that is so sexy.  She texted back that she had a great time too and that I’m very interesting.

I wish we’d had sex of course, but life is about the journey.  No matter how this one turns out tonight was a positive experience.