How to Attract Women : Dating Tips: Organic Seduction – A PUA Blog

I have two goals with this article – to make as many people as possible aware of this kickass comedian and to try and make this one of the top posts about him and thus get an actual visit from the man himself, as I know he loves to google himself. 

So get ready to laugh your dicks off.

10.   Bonnaroo -  Not only does Aziz come down to the dirty south, where I am living for a few months, to deliver awesome sexually-charged comedy, but he ALSO enjoys the local produce – aka mushrooms.  It's nice to have a comedian tell a few jokes about cool drugs, instead of talking about doing blow off a 40 year old hooker in upstate new york.  [More]

I was really curious to see what was up with this chick.  First off all she is rough.  I mean I got into this game to meet beautiful and amazing women and this girl is wicked crazy. 

All week she was making comments about how men don't understand women.  The thing is all of her comments were the kinda crap you read in FHM or Maxim.  You know, the stuff that is totally inaccurate and useless.

Her big thing is that she is part of the EFT scam.  If you haven't seen tapping, you are gonna love the video.  The thing is tapping is supposed to remove your anxieties.  But she taps ALL THE TIME.  It's really hard to not laugh when you are in a seminar and this girl is tapping like a maniac.  She just taps her chest all the time.  I had a friend when I was younger who had a simliar tic.  But he had MS and if I didn't know it was on purpose, I would think she had a nervous system disease. 

So imagine you're in a bar and you see a girl tapping her chest.  Over and Over.  It's really fast and looks super nervous.  But she believes that you can tap anything out.  Including shit tests.  I almost died when she said that.  It's another video highlight.

She was really weird during Hypnotica's lecture and said she was doing some weird tantric thing.  She was being super sexual and squirmy and it really just weirded me out.  I guess she wrote something on her blog about banging a bunch of guys there.  Some of the instructors or whatever, but honestly it's really gross to me.

When I look at a woman I look at her upper arm to see if there is hidden fat and then I look at her hands.  And based on her hands I would say Erika is mid 40s.  I don't know her "actual" age.  I just know how old she looks.

The other weird thing is that she spends all day slathering lipstick on.  I don't know who taught her how to use make up but it was clearly a clown or blind person.  I think she may have purchased a makeup shotgun from the Simpsons.

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Update I wrote the above right after I left Vegas.  I felt bad that it was so harsh and the video is so rough that I wasn't going to post either.  But she posted a bunch of lies on her blog.  I am totally not down with that.  I have written about my being a dick so many times on here that you know I only tell the truth.  Writing all this stuff about Vegas has probably hurt my career but I gotta do what I believe.

Anyways, the thing that really upset me is that on her blog she called the two girls that her friends abused "porn stars" the girls are actually models who mostly do events like car shoes.  So I think that was really lame.  She was trying to make her story sound cooler, but it's no cool in my book.  I think there is a huge difference between getting paid to stand next to a car in short shorts and getting banged on camera.  I think both professions are cool, but I feel like these girls deserve a little honesty.

I personally dabbled with tapping when I first got into game.  It's totally a placebo at best.  The hours you have to put in to make a difference are insane.  Time spend in the actual field is worth 10x as much.  And for real you can't tap away shit tests.  As soon as a girl catches you tapping, you are burned.

This guy should not be allowed around women, let alone be allowed to try and make a living in the dating business.  He dresses like a cheese-dick from the seventies and is obsessed with dominating the room.

He walked into every seminar late and made a ton of noise to make sure he got noticed.  If you walk in late while someone else is talking, you don't stop the whole thing to say your greetings to everyone. 

This guy leads a crew of really creepy guys who can't seem to open sets, let alone close them.  His crew left trash all over the hotel and earned Johnny a $500 fine for leaving their laptops in a hotel room we were no longer using.  The world seems to be their trashcan.  This guy talks a lot about the women he has seduced, but when called out by Orleans didn't actually know what a shit test was.

He explained that the reason he performed so poorly infield was because he is not good at picking up women, he is good at getting picked up.  How can anyone actually say this?  He then explained that he went around a club with the goal of getting the strongest rejection possible and was hoping to be slapped by a woman. 

He tricked two models into coming into his seminar and demonstrated a complete and total lack of understanding of women.  He placed them on barstools next to the window with thirty guys between them and the door.  They looked trapped and were fidgeting like crazy.  His creepy friend then kept offering them food and the girls said they wanted to leave and go eat at a restaraunt.  It became clear that this was not an option and then this guy bragged about "taking care of his women."

He explained to the girls that he creates a container in which women can surrender to him.  He tried to embarass the students by pointing to them and asking the girls to rate them.  I then explained to him that girls care about personality more than looks.  When he asked in broken English if this was true he was SHOCKED that the girl agreed with me.  One of the students suggest that the girls guess which guys were coaches and which were students.  This idiot freaked out again and said that was a terrible idea.

When he talked about trying to get a bad reaction from women and just trying to get a date for a party, I asked the girl if she thought this was nice or if she wanted to slap him in the face.  She said she wanted to slap him in the face.  He of course scrambled to try and control her.

The girl even said "I have read the game, do you guys teach pickup stuff?"  His creepy partner said "No, nothing like that, I teach men to dominate women."  Both girls cringed and so did I.

I could go into more detail about the different ways this guy suggested lying to women, but seeing him do it to a woman's face was more than enough.  It was so obvious he was lying I wanted to die.  This guy and his crew should be kicked out of the dating industry.  Ideally they would be tarred and feathered.

He has already given a talk today at another event and lied about what happened in Vegas.  He claimed he was knee deep in pornstars.  I was at EVERY event he went to.  He talked to one girl.  And only because she was dating a guy Johnny knows.  Guess what – I talked to her too.  Five minutes with a friend's girlfriend is NOT something to blog about.

There is plenty more I could say about this guy.  My final point will be that the only way he was able to get a date for a fetish party was by bringing a prostitute.  And not a nice one.  Steer clear of this idiot.

If you put a gun to his family he wouldn't be able to open a set.  And of course he can't close one.  Stealing some material from pu101 and AMP does not a dating coach make you be.

Overall, this guy is the worst dating coach I have ever seen.  He has zero respect for women and even less understanding.  I have watched him lie to women, students and other coaches directly.  So now you know.  The guy is a creep.

A few weeks ago I was covering for another teacher at this uni I have been teaching at. I did a 1on1 4 hour English lesson with this super rich Kazakhstani dude. We were chilling. Basically unlike most douche bag English teachers I can talk to rich people about normal things like badass high end clubs and beautiful women. So we connected and I almost got him to buy a table at Jalouse through my homey. I gave him my connections number there and thought I would never see the dude again [More]

This is probably the best movie for people in the scene.  It is simply amazing.  It really shows the way a guy can interact with his oneitis, the way he controls her without realizing it, the ways to escape your past and the power of friendship.

I hate the title of this movie and that kept me from watching it for a long time.  It is designed to catch the attention of teenage girls and I believe that is the intended audience for the movie, but the film is simply awesome.  I am not going to break down the plot there.  The truth is you will either trust me and watch this movie or not.  It still blows my mind how many guys want to get good with women, yet refuse to watch The L Word.  I have been screaming the name of that show for a full year now.  I bet you haven’t watched a single episode have you?  I don’t think anyone should be allowed to complain about escalation until they have watched at least 3 seasons.  It’s simply necessary.

But this movie is amazing at showing the power friendship can play in social dynamics.  The sweetness of this movie is really inspiring.  If you want to really understand how relationships blossom in a dynamic way, watch this movie.  It is really powerful and moving.  You will learn a lot about all of the other prerequisites of game too, don’t worry.  It has a ton of frame control, shit tests and locational comfort.

Like I said, I watched this movie for the 2nd time last night.  There is about 20 minutes I would like to cut out of the movie, as one character is just really annoying to me.  But I skip through her  scenes and it’s fine now.  I think the most powerful lesson comes from the last lines of the movie.  The girl says “Are you sad that we missed it?” and the boy responds with “We didn’t miss it.  This IS it.”

He is so right.  Often we are so unable to live in the moment as we focus on what isn’t happening in our lives.  Concerts are awesome.  I love them.  I go all the time.  What is really important is the emotions we share and the impact we have on the world.  I recommended this movie on the London forum recently.  Something tells me a lot of guys are missing this amazing movie.  And that is a shame.  Because this is it.

For me this show was such an addiction.  It’s basically mindless drivel.  I used to listen to it on the train, while I was playing video games and just when I was walking around the city.  It’s not evil or anything.  I don’t have a problem with the filth etc. Like most people who complain about this show do.  It’s something else. [More]

As the only American at Urban Art Forms this year, I think it is my duty to take the time to write out a full and detailed review.  So I will cover the basics now.

The Weather

It rained pretty heavily for most of the time I was there.  The stages are actually on proper flooring, not on a field, so the festival wasn’t really affected.  The tent area however, turned into a mudbath.  It was totally crazy.  All the locals seemed to have wellies with them, so they adapted nicely. [More]

So I hit the Comedy Store in London last Friday.  I will tell you up front that the situation almost got Tucker Max and I had to make a decision, but let’s start this story at the beginning.

I was planning on hitting a rave with my man Iceberg and hopefully my boy YumYum, when I get a phone call from my house mate.  He is wasted and wants some company out there.  I already have dinner plans in less than an hour with 3 of my mates right next to my house.  My house mate asks me to try and be drunk by the time he gets home.  I have 20 minutes.

Challenge accepted. [More]

Sheriff is friends with Tynan and when he needed a place to crash in London, I was more than happy to oblige.  I recently decided that he has one of the best blogs in pickup and also it is probably the best blog on travel out there, now that he has merged it with the life nomadic.  He is the king of cheap airline flights and cruise trips.  I realized that if he’s chilling at mine, I would be remiss if I didn’t write something on my blog.  So I asked him about stuff that I’m interested in

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This week I had back to back dates with girls I met while out with my main student.  I went out with three girls and LondonPlayboy to a little talk by the lady that wrote the Art of Conversation.  Now we were trying to play down our skill level, but I accidentally dominated the room before the talk.  I was just super clicking with the girl I liked’s friends.  I was chatting and just being awesome.  The speaker lady read her entire two hour talk.   From 2 feet away from me.  She had a few good points in there, but overall it was like old pua technology.  Stuff from about 15 years ago.  I mean it’s really ok and interesting, but nothing blew my mind.  And most people really only talked about how she read the talk.  She spent time explaining that writing about conversation didn’t mean she had to be good at it.

It was interesting to see the kind of people that go there and I saw a few pretty girls.  Afterwards I escalated the girl I like and tried to get a date off her.  She is polish AND east londony.  So she has a lot of sex appeal to me.  Her friends really like me and LP did a good job of backing me up.  Overall it was a fun night.  I really don’t know if I will get a date with the polish girl.  She is booked up until this sunday, but I’m off to Tunisia then so I am not sure what will happen.

She did text me back today, so at least it’s not a cold number.  Lord knows I get enough of those in my life!  The main thing I learned is that my verbal escalation techniques are really making a difference.  Being honest and pushing is working pretty good.  I think I have more growing to do, but overall I’m happy.