So for the past month I have had a girlfriend. I was so into her that I stopped writing posts about my dating life. It's weird how I can care about someone enough to respect their privacy. When I basically live without any myself.
I have been back in my hometown for a week now. I'm a little hesitant to say where I am, because I have some internet stalkers on a few weird forums who have been talking about my family etc. So for now I'll let you guys figure it out.
Anyways I think about my x like every day. It's really strange because technically we are broken up. But in my heart I just miss her so bad. Now at least I know that I am capable of loving someone. The thought of eternal monogamy is pretty terrifying though. But I guess I'll figure it out. Just not quite yet….
I haven’t been posting a lot because I have been so busy lately. I have a ton of new students and I am trying to give them as much time as possible before I move back home. I will be living in Nashville for 6weeks to 6months. Nothing is really decided or permanent, but I am just putting out feelers in every direction. I am applying for uni jobs all over the place. From my hometown to Oman to Japan. I am just putting out feelers.
My main project right now is to put the Nashville lair back together. There is a yahoo group that is just disjointed. I have set up a new proper forum at www.TennLair.com . Hopefully I can get all the guys connected and pour a ton of training into my hometown. It is gonna be really great to see what I can put together. [More]
I have just finished my MA dissertation. It is at the printers right now and I will be picking it up Tuesday morning and handing it in. The I am 100% done with that forever!!! I get my grades and degree in November. I am really excited to be finished but now it’s time to look at the next phase of my life.
I have a few challenges that I am grinding through this month. I am back on my diet/training regime. This includes no soda, no bread, no fast food of any kind etc for 3 months. It also includes no drinking for the next 3 months. That one I’m really struggling with. I am certainly drinking WAY less after my last period of no drinking. I really wanna tighten up my fitness kick so I am gonna try to grind.
I am also going to try to not masturbate for a whole month. I just deleted all the porn off of my computer. Holy crap I had 65gigs. Man that is a ton. I hate to watch the same video more than once… Anyways I actually deleted it all as a challenge. I really wanna tighten up my game this month and I think this will help a ton. It also leads me to my next challenge.
I am going to study a new guru for a month, every month for the next season. I haven’t set an end limit on this challenge. I DO know that I am going to start by studying Mehow this month. I know a lot of people don’t rate him, but October does. And for me that is more than good enough. I just wanna get deep into my game and go more technical again. I am good but I want to get amazing.
I can only focus on 3 challenges at a time in my mind. So these are my current ones.
A few weeks ago I was covering for another teacher at this uni I have been teaching at. I did a 1on1 4 hour English lesson with this super rich Kazakhstani dude. We were chilling. Basically unlike most douche bag English teachers I can talk to rich people about normal things like badass high end clubs and beautiful women. So we connected and I almost got him to buy a table at Jalouse through my homey. I gave him my connections number there and thought I would never see the dude again [More]
This is probably the best movie for people in the scene. It is simply amazing. It really shows the way a guy can interact with his oneitis, the way he controls her without realizing it, the ways to escape your past and the power of friendship.
I hate the title of this movie and that kept me from watching it for a long time. It is designed to catch the attention of teenage girls and I believe that is the intended audience for the movie, but the film is simply awesome. I am not going to break down the plot there. The truth is you will either trust me and watch this movie or not. It still blows my mind how many guys want to get good with women, yet refuse to watch The L Word. I have been screaming the name of that show for a full year now. I bet you haven’t watched a single episode have you? I don’t think anyone should be allowed to complain about escalation until they have watched at least 3 seasons. It’s simply necessary.
But this movie is amazing at showing the power friendship can play in social dynamics. The sweetness of this movie is really inspiring. If you want to really understand how relationships blossom in a dynamic way, watch this movie. It is really powerful and moving. You will learn a lot about all of the other prerequisites of game too, don’t worry. It has a ton of frame control, shit tests and locational comfort.
Like I said, I watched this movie for the 2nd time last night. There is about 20 minutes I would like to cut out of the movie, as one character is just really annoying to me. But I skip through her scenes and it’s fine now. I think the most powerful lesson comes from the last lines of the movie. The girl says “Are you sad that we missed it?” and the boy responds with “We didn’t miss it. This IS it.”
He is so right. Often we are so unable to live in the moment as we focus on what isn’t happening in our lives. Concerts are awesome. I love them. I go all the time. What is really important is the emotions we share and the impact we have on the world. I recommended this movie on the London forum recently. Something tells me a lot of guys are missing this amazing movie. And that is a shame. Because this is it.
It took 2 weeks of high angle text game to get a date out of the Author. She has amazing blue eyes that pierce right through me. I made some serious tactical mistakes in setting up the date, that will reveal themselves throughout the story. I finally got the date when she said to meet up on Friday. Of course Friday morning I read my man Tenmagnet’s post on Dating Amushes. This is one of the best articles on dating and date mistakes I’ve read in AGES. I should not have let her set the date for Friday night. It messed up my chance to meet and chill with the legend, Zan.
So we meet up at 7pm on a Friday night. She looks amazing, except for she is rocking a mustache. This is my personal pet peeve for women. I have have really been paying attention since this date and a LOT of women are rocking cookie dusters. I try to ignore these things, but damn hers was pretty much a Tom Selleck situation.
To be honest I was able to put it aside and plow through the date. I don’t really have the strength to go through moment by moment of what happened. Basically she spent the whole night picking at my frame. I am used to major frame assault and tests. Waht I am not used to is this tactic. For example, when we went into the 2nd bar of the night I didn’t offer to pay for her drink. I just don’t roll like that. The girl has a high paying mayfair job and can support herself. I don’t pay for a girl as it sets the wrong frame. I don’t mind doing rounds like normal people. [More]
Easy to say, but let’s be honest – Hard to do! If you can overcome jealousy, it will change your life. Don’t be fooled into thinking I have conquered jealousy, but I have certainly beaten it back. A few years ago I was a level-1 jealous dude. I hated anyone who talked to my oneitis. It was a deep fiery rage. I thought she was banging all these dudes behind my back. (of course she actually was….)
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For me this show was such an addiction. It’s basically mindless drivel. I used to listen to it on the train, while I was playing video games and just when I was walking around the city. It’s not evil or anything. I don’t have a problem with the filth etc. Like most people who complain about this show do. It’s something else. [More]
I spent several hours last night updating my NLP with Bugsy Malone. We went through a ton of deep issues and I learned things that I did not know about myself. The whole process was really amazing and I have a couple of things to work on this week that will move me closer to my destination. I am going to start making a list of accomplishments in my life. These will become chapters in my new book. I am also going to prioritize my goals list for this year. I am going to do both of them today hopefully. I have a meeting with Jamie in an hour. He is my NLP guru, so I am looking forward to it. [More]
So I am 3 weeks into my 12 week program. It’s hard to judge exactly where I am. I have only lost about 2.5 kg over three weeks. Part of that is due to sustaining an injury and only working out last Monday. I was in the gym today and I set a new personal best on the treadmell. I hammered out a 5k in 36:32. This is about 3x slower than the world record. So there is a lot of room for improvement. But that really isn’t my goal. I think this weekend I will do a proper race with my house mate. I don’t think I can beat him, he’s was born in good shape. But I’m not gonna tell him that!
After my run today, I lifted my Body4Life routine. It is a strange pyramid formation and not that many exercises. But it takes me around 40 minutes to complete. Mostly because I’m slow after the run. Today I really pushed myself and could feel my muscles straining. I can feel myself getting stronger. [More]
