So after she snuck out while I was asleep, I was uncertain about seeing the Czech girl again.  I wasn’t even sure if I would ever hear from her again.  So I threw her a text to see if she was ok, made it home etc.  She texted back that she hadn’t wanted to wake me while I was sleeping.  I told her that was really sweet and I left it there.  I think we all know why she didn’t wake me up.  It was a damn prison break.

So I texted her again a day later here and there and I set up a date for monday night after a short 1on1 with a student.  We met at 9 and had a single drink in a bar.  We chilled and it was nice.  Unfortunately, I finally run into the Italian girl I saw a few weeks ago when I’m with this girl.  The Italian girl is so beautiful and I can see the jealousy in her eyes.  I don’t know if that set is dead, but I am trying to avoid gaming one girl while on a date with another.  I mean a guy has to have SOME limits don’t he?

So after an hour we just start walking.  She can tell where we are going.  I am like we are just gonna chill a little at my place.  We get straight into bed and I put her into another one of my shirts.  Unfortunately, the hilarious game shirt from Starlight that I had her wear on Friday was still in the wash.  So she was wearing a shirt that I actually like and wear a lot.  We just snuggle a lot and I keep trying to escalate.  It was like the battle of Stalingrad.  A war of attrition.

It took hours to break down her defences.  She has the most arbitrary set of rules I have even encountered.  She won’t let me get under her shirt or jeans all night.  After about 6 hours I get her hot enough that she lets me party in boob town.  Usually with a girl once I’m there is it on like Donkey Kong.  But not with her.  We are making out so hot and heavy.  I decide to drop a CaliPimp move and put my finger in her mouth.  She destroys it.  I am like I gotta get my dick involved in this action.  But she is having none of it.  She won’t touch my cock at all.  Not even with her hand.

She will let me rub her crotch over her jeans, but only if we are dry humping.  If I am lying next to hear I am not allowed to touch it.  It is so strange to try and decode this girl.  I mean she has her legs wrapped around me and it is sex with a little denim in between us.  By the end I am totally naked, even though she still has her jeans on.  We dry hump like crazy and eventually I kneel over her and blow my load on her belly, but most of it gets into her belt buckle.  I wasn’t really focusing.  I probably could have come on her face, but that’s really not a big fetish for me.

Finally, I crash out and she leaves in the morning.  This time I am awake when she leaves.

I found out in the middle of the night that she has a boyfriend back home.  The source of all her resistance.  She asks how I would feel if I found out she has a boyfriend in her village and I told her I wouldn’t care.  I really don’t.  I don’t have time to be jealous or whatever.  And I certainly don’t think less of her.  Of course she wants to hook up with me.  I’m awesome sauce.

We have been on another date since, but she is staying with a host family so can’t sleep over a lot.  Mystel really likes her.  She loves his magic and she thinks she is hot and cool.  He actually warned me not to break her heart.  She sent me a text last night to let me know how special she feels with me.  Tonight is our last date before she leaves the country.  Will let you know….

In one night I gained access to a new social tier and I had an amazing date with a really sweet girl.  It was awesome.  The promoter I met through High Roller hit me up this week and invited me to Jalouse.  He said could have the run of the table with 3 friends if I bring 10 girls.  I text my man Mr M and he says let’s do it.  So me, him and Daxx decide to rock out.  We end up rolling up with more than 30 girls.  The girl running the line LOVED me.  It was so badass.

All the guys at the table loved me and texted me within 24 hours.  I have some new really cool contacts in London and Brighton now.  Basically rich cool guys who seem to like hot women.  Go figure.  The night was awesome and now I have access to another club that is member’s only except for this one promoter.  It’s so cool to make friends.  And not have to spend cash to get there.

The good part of then night for me was chilling with my lovely Czech girl.  She was a student from an English class I taught this week.  I waited to ask her out until I finished teaching at the school.  She is really sweet and insanely beautiful.  But energy is everything.  We met up an hour early for a drink and just chilled.  I didn’t amp up that much attraction as I have massive status as her teacher and I had a feeling that bringing 30 girls to a badass club would be enough.  So I just built comfort.  I teased her a lot about her country having no running water and being over run with werewolves.  We looked at her house and her little village on Google Earth on my Blackberry.  (PS Get a blackberry it’s awesome!!!)  So we just chatted and had a nice time until Daxx rolled up.  He looked dapper as shit and I think that made me look really cool.

We roll up to the club and I am like a lion tamer trying to control a gaggle of girls.  Being in charge is massively stressful for me but gives so much value it’s insane.  I really try to spend a lot of time with my girl and I tell all the other dudes on the table which girl is mine and I introduce all the other ones.  Each guy made an effort to make me look cooler to her.  It was awesome.  It took me HOURS to get a kiss off her.

We were standing outside having a smoke, well I was smoking.  And she was sitting on a wall and I was stood between her legs.  Each time I leaned in to kiss her she would giggle or turn her head.  Now this is important for guys new to game.  This isn’t a no from a girl, this is a not yet.  Crucial distinction.  She says “what’s on your mind” and I said nothing.  Then I ask her and she says nothing.  I’m like interesting.. and she says the same thing.  Sexual tension is slowly building.  I am having a little escalation anxiety to be honest.  And that is the sure sign that it is time to escalate.  So I say to her that I am thinking of kissing her.  And we kiss.  It’s really lovely and sweet.

Throughout the night I have to leave her to chill with all my friend and ladies.  The whole time she is really chill and manages to make her own fun.  We dance a ton and it’s really sexy and sensual.  Eventually, I ask if she’s ready to go.  She asks where and I say my house.  She tells me she doesn’t want to have sex.  Ha.  Why was she thinking about that?

So eventually we go outside and she wants to find her night bus home.  I take something I learned from Sebastian Drake and Switch and I just keep telling her that it’s a good idea to grab a cab and come to mine.  We come back and she let’s me know we’re not gonna have sex again.  Now maybe I’m just a big pansie, but I really enjoy a good cuddle.  I use Sheriff’s LMR tactics.  I just hand her a shirt to wear and turn around while she changes.  We spend hours looking at facebook pictures of each other, kissing and cuddling.  I get a tiny bit of over the shirt boob action.

When I was 13, I would have killed for this kind of action. I fall asleep with her in my arms.  It’s a great way to build an emotional connection with a girl.  And you can have sex in the morning!

Unless you wake up and she’s gone.  With your shirt neatly folded and placed on your laptop.  I’m going to see her again.  It sucks that she’s leaving so soon.  C’est la vie.

A few weeks ago I started chatting to a new girl I met on facebook.  She liked my pic and I liked hers.  We chatted a bit and moved on to texting.  I got her to send me a few cute pics on my phone and we tried to arrange a date.  Logistics kept us apart and I went to Mexico.  She was going to come to London this Sunday to hit the markets near my house and of course I’m into that!  Then on Thursday she has a massive asthma attack and spends the day in hospital.  She is too weak to risk the hour drive from her small town to the city and there is work on the train lines, making the trip into the city almost 3 hours.

I had a choice.  I could let her cancel the date and not see her for two more weeks or I could do something I don’t normally do.  I am really trying to do things that I don’t normally do.  So I decided to jump on a train and a bus and visit her.  I was able to write a chapter for my new book on the journey

I get to the station and I jump in her car.  We decide to have a picnic in the park so we grab some food from a supermarket and go there.  We don’t have a blanket to lie on, just a jumper.  The park is pretty empty, but not nearly empty enough.  We have a conversation and end up talking a little bit about my work etc.

I pretty much end up telling every girl what I do.  I tell her about how I’m trying to be super duper honest.  She asks a good question.  How can she actually know I’m really honest.  I suggest she ask an innappropriate question.  I anwer honestly.  Hehe.  After a while I just feel like we’re not connecting.  I just feel a distance between us.

A part of me just wanted to go home.  But another part remembered that sometimes you just can’t tell if a girl likes you.  Some girls give nothing away.  I keep trying to escalate both verbally and physically but she is just shrugging me off.  She’s pretty ill and wheezing a bit.  She goes to the bathroom at one point and takes a her purse with her.  I partly thought she wouldn’t come back.

We decide to hit a pub for one drink even though she can’t drink because of her medicine and driving.  It is warmer in there and I’m really just mellow now.  She becomes super animated and really funny.  It’s strange but the heat seemed to release her personality.  It was hard to keep in mind that she was super sick.  After we finish our drinks I’m just so tired and hoping to meet a good mate for dinner in the city.

On the walk to her car I grab her and carry her a little.  She is taller than me and dense.  My spine nearly telescopes.  But she is letting me do it and we’re building up some touch.  She drives me to the station and is about to drop me off out front when I’m like no way.  Pull up a little I’m shy!  So then she pulls deep into the back parking lot.  Cool.  Suddenly there is that huge end of the date awkwardness filling the car.  I can barely breathe.  I try to lock laser eyes and she avoids.

Finally, I give up.  Like a coward.  I finally give up and offer her my cheek.  She is like what the hell are you doing?  I’m like not even a cheek kiss?  Suddenly, I man up.  I grab her by the back of her hair and pull her in.  She tries to push her cheek at me.  I say I don’t think so and spin her mouth to mine.  We make out for a bit and she escalates to tongues.  I like letting that happen so the girl has some responsibility for our escalation.  I almost make her take me back to hers but I don’t quite feel like it’s on.  Plus she is so ill and wheezy that I am afraid sex will kill her.

We have texted a few times since and I think I’ll see her next week.

Ok. So I’m drunk again.  It’s 2am.  The Mouse just left my house after a badass date.  I’m not gonna dance around it…we rode the train all the way to LMR town.  Sigh.

So I partied with her hot friend last night and the girl loved me and gave me Mouse’s number today.  Like I suspected Mouse doesn’t do any pursuing even though I didn’t have her number.  So I tried to call today and caught the machine.  I threw her a text and we started texting back and forth.

I was out with Beeballer and LondonPlayboy when she started replying.  No matter what I wrote her texts were one or two words back.  I followed LPs wisdom and pulled off a date tonight.  We met in central and at first there was that awkward do we kiss moment…I messed it up or not I dunno but I went in to kiss her on the cheek.  We hit a pub and just chatted and I told her about my work and teaching game etc.  She was fascinated but I only let her talk about it for a few minutes.  I was more interested in her life.

We have almost too much in common.  She is into dragons, wizards, vampires, costumes, masked balls, badboy movies that I like, she is a secret nerd, she’s jewish like me, she doesn’t like to play games and is really into honesty, and she has read Ender’s Game.  I thought she was making some of her answers up.

After one drink I bounced her to the bar near my house…a ten minute walk and a ten minute train ride away.  LP is a genius.  I just did what he told me to do, unsolicited of course.  She was so comfortable with me.  I kissed her in between bars and it just set the tone.  We basically built comfort and were honest and made out and got drunk.  We bounced to my favorite bar in the world.  We danced a lot.  She explained in more detail her vampire fetish.

We set up some other dates for the future.  She wanted to dance more and we made out.  She bit me.  Vampire style.  Now I am all about trying tons of new things right now and in principle it was sexy as hell and I felt all taken and stuff, but dammit that bastard hurt.  But I think her releasing her sexuality is really awesome.

At one point on the dancefloor I tell her I need to pee.  She’s like I’m not dancing alone, I’ll come with you.  This bar was full of sleazy dudes for some reason tonight so I didn’t want to have to leave her alone anyways.  So we go downstairs and I try to drag her into the toilets….turns out she actually needed to pee.  And of course about 5 guys show up after she’s gone in.  So the boys isn’t empty anymore.

She tells me at some point that she’s not sleeping with me tonight.  I like to hear that!  So I know she is deciding if she will have sex with me.  She is like I’m not coming home with you.  She stays too late and of course has to try and figure out the night bus situation.  So I tell her we need to look on my computer.  Boom.  We get into bed.  I get a little over the shirt booby time and a lot of making out, but that’s it.

I even request a courtesy handjob and she’s like I gotta go.  She is super paranoid about STDs and told me she won’t sleep with a guy she’s not in a relationship with, but that she doesn’t want to be in a relationship right now.  She is really paranoid about sleeping with other people that I sleep with.  So I told her that I’m not sleeping with anyone else right now.  We agreed that we can sleep together without a commitment, but that if we shag other people we’ll tell each other before we sleep together again.

Progress.

So I waited with her at the bus stop and made out the whole time.  She has agreed to a date for Thursday.  I’m pretty pumped about that.  I have no idea if I’ll sleep with her, but I am enjoying the challenge.  For now.

There is other stuff she said that I got mixed up when it happened so I’ll put it here.  She asked if there is a point at which I get fed up with a girl for not banging me and cut her off.  I told her yes, but that I don’t know when that point is.  Which is true.  I haven’t hit that point with a girl yet.

I asked her what she hates.  She said brussel sprouts and then took it back and said she doens’t really hate them, just really dislikes them.  She has a really positive energy.

I was really tired for our date, so I think that affected my energy all night and kept me from pushing for pure physical escalation.  Also, I’m too into her so I’ll prolly fuck it up.