So one of my recent guys and I have been hanging out a ton lately. There is nothing I enjoy more than hanging out with a student that I have turned into a badass wing and friend. Of course this is a story of a different sort.

On Saturday this dude was in a restaurant bar eating dinner alone when he sees three girls throwing back the drinks and decides to join in the conversation. It’s amazing how many epic stories start with just one little decision. The first step seems hardest of all, except when we look at it with hindsight.

Fast forward a few hours and he’s partying with them in their strip club and throwing back the overpriced cocktails. He gets the number of the loudest and craziest one after a night of intense partying and trouble making. He texts her the next day and gets no reply so he figures that it’s dead. C’est la vie.

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Late night Sunday she texts him saying she wants to meet up on Monday. So he suggests taking her out to dinner and maybe a few drinks. She’s like how about we just chill at your place. This is the ultimate sign that she just wants to bang. She doesn’t even want the free dinner first!

But this is also where I’m crashing this week, since I’m visiting him. So I get the boot when she comes over. I drove 8 hours that day and I spend an hour falling asleep in a restaurant and then another hour trying to sleep by the pool while he’s doing his thing to her.

The finally chip off and I hit the sack. Right where he smashed her.

A few days later she wants to party and he tells her to bring one of her friends for me. So on Thursday I go out and get loaded up on booze and ready to party. He texts me a little later telling me they have some specific booze requests. Needless to say they want some gross watermelon flavored stripper booze. The lady in the WinnDixie knew exactly what was up. I made sure to have her tell everyone else in the store that I normally buy tough guy liquor.

So the girls go to some bar on the way back to our party pad and he goes to meet them on his way back from work. I have to cruise over from the apartment. A silly little 5 minute drive to meet them up. His girl is loud as hell and people are all moving away from her. She’s got about 15 piercings and 40 tattoos and she is the type of girl that shouts all the time. Right behind her and her buddy is a lovely pair of blonds that I just want to dive right into. But I gotta back my boy up and these girls are already coming back to ours.

The girl he got for me is a cute little brunette. As soon as I make eye contact with my dude we signal that we gotta get these girls outa public. It’s straight embarassing to be around girls that are so loud and obnoxious.

We bounce them back to the pad and start doing drinks. It’s quickly apparent that his girl runs the club where these girls dance. She’s one of those girls that shouts that she is an expert at everything. So she immediately takes over the drink pouring duties. If you like half your booze getting poured on the counter and drinks that taste awful, I can give you this girls contact details. It’s amazing how delusional some people can be.

I go back out with the friend to get some soda to mix with their drinks and I notice a bigass child seat in the back of her car. She’s like ya I got 2 kids and I live with my grandmother. I was like that’s awesome. Normally I would be way outa the scene by now. It’s just too much baby mama drama, but this girl’s body is tight.

Back in the condo we are blasting back drinks and I start escalating the hell outa my girl. I start talking to her about talents and she tells us all that her main talent is making her butt and snatch snap separately. She then stripped from the waist down and showed us. It was impressive but I’m not really sure how it was sexy. Way to scientific looking for me.

We are getting blasted and end up doing chicken fights in the pool. Tops are getting ripped off and our old creepy neighbor is watching like a hawk. He’s just circling the pool like my dog used to when it thought I was drowning as a kid.

We are getting completely dominated because the other team has like 50% more mass than us. So we keep working on strategies. In the final round I drop down super low, grab my friend’s dong, and then blast up so she can push the other girl over. We have a sweet victory.

I take her back inside and we start making out. I look at the door and I’m like do I need to lock that? I don’t really want to lose my groove so I ignore it. I pop her top off and I’m trying to reach behind me for a condom when the main stripper busts in and shuts us down. The girl is just shouting and wants more drinks.

So the mood is broken and we all are back outside chilling more. About 15 minutes later the blond stripper shouts that the 3 of them need to have a meeting in the condo. She runs over and locks me outa my own place. I was going to go hunting all night for ladies with one of my homies from London, and I even told him when I went home that something like this would happen to me.

So my homey had the first threesome of his life and even smashed in the brunette bareback in the bootie. That’s some serious shenanigans.

Like I always say, I get my students laid.

I’m damn happy for him but next time I’m hiding a book by the pool.

SEE, I can post stories where I’m not the hero.

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Moving from London to Nashville was more than just a little bit of a culture shock.  Dating in Nashville is really strange for many reasons.  In Nashville there is a major religious structure in place which dominates a lot of how women view dating and their own sexuality.

Girls that grow up in Nashville are either extremely conservative or extremely forward.  There is very little in the middle.  Many of the women here simply don’t know how to act around men.  They think that the answers to all of their problems lie in a long term relationship.  Just today I got an email from a girl on a Nashville dating site explaining why she would never go out with me.  In my profile I said that I don’t want a long term relationship unless it’s with a really amazing woman.  She said that she doesn’t like that.  She wants a guy who ALREADY wants a long term relationship.

This means she wants a guy who just wants a long term relationship, not a guy who wants a long term relationship with HER.  This is really needy and actually made me sad.  She is going to end up with a guy who is just settling for her.  And she will just be settling for him.

There are some really good things about dating in Nashville though.  When you meet a normal girl who isn’t obsessed with a long term boyfriend or getting married as fast as possible, you meet some of the nicest women in the world.  Girls here are way friendlier than in London.  It’s easy to start conversations with most women.  The real challenge is that a lot of local women are really just boring.  I have met a lot of women while I have been dating in Nashville that just want to stay in Tennessee forever.  They can’t imagine ever leaving the state.

I just don’t find xenophobia attractive.

But it’s not just the women here, many of the men are ignorant too.  Last week a guy got in my face and accused me of being gay while I was in Cookeville.  It was clear from his body language that he wanted to fight me.  This was right after he watched me get the phone number of a very attractive bartender.  So ignorance is gender neutral around here.

As in any city, when you are doing some Nashville dating, you have to sift through a LOT of coal to find those diamonds.  There are lot of people who have moved here to pursue musical or artistic dreams.  These are the best women around.  They see beauty in the world and they know how to express themselves.  And unlike a lot of the other women in this town, they know how to be not-boring.  And really that is amazing.

The other challenge to dating in Nashville is the architecture of the city.

It seems as though Nashville was designed to make dating a challenge.  Most people only go out one night a week in Nashville.  In London people go out 3-4 times a week.  That means they meet people 200 times a year in London and barely 50 here.  And yet these same people wonder why they are alone on Sunday night.  If you want to start dating in Nashville, you have to go out more often people!

The reason people go out so rarely is that challenge of finding a good venue.  There are 3-4 good areas in the whole city for bars and clubs.  And they are a real challenge to get to.  You have to drive downtown, struggle for parking, pay for that parking and then pay just to get into a bar that might only be half full.  Then you have to drive 30 minutes home at the end of the night.  So there is always the whole designated driver issue.

I only plan on staying in this town for a short amount of time and I have enjoyed it here.  I will help as many men as I can learn the skills of dating in Nashville.  That is my main challenge.  I have met dozens of beautiful women in my time here, but it seems like the dating in this town is years behind a lot of other cities.

I have been so busy with my new fulltime job that I haven’t had time to write more about Vegas.  I pretty much hit most of the highlights.  I have to say that the instructors there were pretty much a joke.  Somehow guys think that if they attend one workshop or bootcamp they can hang up a shingle and call themselves an instructor.

I think people should take this business more seriously.  There is really no oversite and I guess that is how there are so many charlatans out there.  Taking money from people when you’re not qualified is not cool in my book.  I am always working my butt off when I’m with a student and I do everything I can to blow up his social life.

Most of the ‘instructors’ in Vegas spent their time hanging out and ignoring students.  I saw a lot of them try and steal girls from students.  That is really shocking.  Some of the guys were so shocked at the end of the week with the students’ complaints.

Students were going off on their own without instructors and getting laid.  Then instructors who did nothing all week would take credit.  I could go name by name with who sucked, but I think the big part is a total lack of direction from the leadership.  Johnny basically never came to the infield stuff and there was no plan.  So without leadership all the instructors bounced around.

I will say that in my opinion Hypnotica, AFC Adam and Orleans were the only other guys there who should still be in this industry.  Orleans was the only instructor who actually got laid.  And his story is legendary.  He didn’t really spend much time with the students.  But overall I know he kept asking Johnny what was expected.  So at least he showed them what was possible.

I really like Harlequin, but he spent the whole time going off and doing awesome things with his buddy.  After the first day students basically never saw him.  Which is a real shame because his game is really tight and he has a lot of knowledge.

Just all these instructors who were totally distracted or never around.

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So I am chilling on Saturday morning and my phone starts blowing up.  gsand wants to meet near Waterloo for some day game and Tea Bag is going into central for some costume shopping.  I throw on my clothes, get wicked high and meet gsand.  It takes ages to find him.  We meet up with 7/11 after a bit too.  Walking up and down the boardwalk for two hours, no hotties.  Bad luck.

Then I cruise up to meet Tea Bag and my damn bus gets diverted.  So annoying.  We finally link up and mess around in a few shops then grab some sweet Chinese for lunch.  He tells me about a party he’s going to where everyone dresses up like it’s a bad wedding.  Super eighties style.  The vibe is amazing and the girls are so cool.  So I text my student and my lesbian sidekick and tell them tonight is gonna be wicked.  My lesbian can’t make it as she needs to rest and ironically spends the night having “the talk” with a girl she is only mildly interested in.  Shame!

I am like thirty minutes late, but when I get there the party is awesome.  It is at least six girls for every guy.  My student is hating it for some reason, but I force him to stay and he gets laid.  But this story is about me. Ha!

The first smoking hot girl I see at the bar.  Wow.  Short.  Brunette.  Piercing green eyes.  Sexy black hat with lace.  Perfect body.  I tell him to open her and her friend.  My student hesitates and the friend just raises her arm and points right at my face.  I think there is no way anyone is that rude, she must be pointing behind me.  So I step to the side.  The finger follows me.  So I step forward and dive in.  They are two super cool girls and immediately are loving me.  I chat and chat.  There is someone throwing the bouquet so I tell the brunette to go win it.  Unfortunately, a guy in a dress gets it because he is so damn tall.

I don’t see her again for a while.  So I meet a blond who looks like Clair Danes.  Everytime I tell my student to open a girl, she sees him hesitate and opens me.  This is one weird magical venue.  I was loving it!  I see that they won’t take this girls card.  So I just say, they don’t take card here?  She goes no, come with me to the cash point.  I had been trying to get my student in and I couldn’t think of a way to get her to go with him instead of me.  So we went and chatted.  She was really sexy.  She mentions a boyfriend she lives with and asks if I’m gay in the first five minutes.  It’s nice to get the bs out of the way.  She is like amazing you have to date my sister.  I walked onto the set of beauty and the beast.  I won’t describe the sister, but that is enough.

Me and Clair Danes slip away and hit the dance floor for a bit.  It’s nice.  I met a third girl who was standing next to me at the bar.  Don’t really know what I said.  But hey I’m LondonPaladin right?  Plus I looked amazing.  Everyone was complimenting me on the new way I did my hair.  I think I will be doing it like that every time I leave the house from now on.

I’m going to be honest with you right now.  There were several smoking hot girls I didn’t talk to that night.  I was simply overwhelmed.  Also, I’m the kinda guy who locks into one set for a night.  Rather than get like 6 numbers.  I was more like that a year ago when I was running traditional MM game.  Now that I’m really doing what’s natural for me, I like to just focus on one girl a night.  Just my personal style.  So these other two girls were just to chat with and have fun.

Over the course of the night I kept seeing this one big dude chatting all over my initial brunette.  I didn’t feel anything.  No jealousy or stress.  I saw her with him and my thought was ok, she’s busy I’ll chat to her later.  And whenever I would see her and her friend the pointer, I would rock up and dance.  We danced alone at several points during the night and it was just nice.  There is something about dancing with a beautiful woman that I enjoy.

So during this night I am also teaching my student about kino and escalation.  And eventually he leaves with his girl and I am damn proud.  Also I keep chatting and having a few drinks with my man Tea Bag.  He is having a blast with his girl. And also some of his other friends.

At the end of the night I’m outside chilling with the doorman who basically knew my be then because I kept coming outside with hot girls.  He was cool.  I see my beautiful girl going back inside.  She comes up to me and says to wait and she will be right back.  That’s kinda cool.  She takes ages and I finish my smoke, so I go back inside to chat to my friends.  I see she is talking to the big dude again.  So I go dance with my friends in a position where I can see her.  So that when she leaves I can see her outside.  The old me woulda been praying not to see her kiss this dude.  I mean I don’t know if I would have changed anything if they had.  I mean I kiss tons of girls.

So when I see her heading for the door, I beat her and we chat and chat.  I am leaning against the wall and she is close.  We are chatting and I’m trying to extract.  She has work the next day etc.  I keep pushing for it, but it’s just not quite there.  We are both close, but I’m not sure.  Then TeaBag and my mates come out and surround us and just watch.  From like 1 foot away.  TeaBag just says to her that he loves watching me talk to girls.  I could have killed him, if I hadn’t been doing so well.  We were connecting and I didn’t react so it didn’t matter.  I mean from the outside it’s a pretty funny move.

I get her number and it takes like 10 minutes.  I think my phone might be on the fritz.  Anyways, we get it all sorted and go back in to dance.  At one point I drop my final escalation bomb.  And she likes it.  I try to kiss hew a few times, but all I get is cheek.  It’s fine.  It’s just a matter of when.  Eventually she has to leave.  I rarely get numbers, but this one felt pretty solid.

Thirty seconds after she leaves I call her and ask if it’s too soon.  Hopefully, she realized how funny that is.  She said to give it a few days, so I’m gonna go old school and wait til Wednesday.  I think I am gonna shift my call style back.  These days I always text the next day.  More so I can remember which girl is which, but I think I need to start calling and waiting longer.  Either way, I had a beautiful experience with a stunning and intelligent woman. Safe.

A lot has happened in the last week and right now I’m just playing catchup.  I wish I was keeping up with this as fast as things happen, but I am just getting behind.  I ran into the Polish girl from last Friday and screwed up.  I have handed out over 100 business cards now out there and not one has led to a phone call or email from a girl.  I find that part fascinating.  I had an amazing connection with a beautiful welsh girl who pinkie-promised on our date and never responded to my texts or calls.  A girl on my course told me I’m fat and need to lose weight then got furious when I told her the same back.  Today she was friendly as hell with me at school again.  Turns out sticking to your guns makes people like you. My house mate gave my blog address to his girlfriend after I specifically asked him not to.  Now it’s only a matter of time until she gets fired for reading this drivel at work.  I found out that I look better than her in her own glasses.  They came to see me do demos Friday night and they loved it.  I was in super state but no pretty girls were there.  I finally broke down and bought an eee pc to travel with.  I needed something super small to keep with me for writing.  I have some more interviews coming up.  I got a ton of research done for my MA.  I am way ahead for once in my life.  Ok.  That is pretty much it.  Writing on this little guy is a bit of a bastard as I keep hitting the up key instead of shift.  Hopefully I can retrain my hand.

I should have written this yesterday.  Waiting a single day means that all the craziness of last night is now coloring my memories of Friday.  Basically, I’ve come to the realization that I’ve hit the next level in game.  My shit is just getting so tight.  I do think it’s derivative of my growing sense of inner game.  On to the tale…

I went to my new local spot for a 1on1 with a new student.  Now I didn’t know anything about this dude, so I didn’t know what to expect.  He was really advanced compared to most of my students and had really good inner game.  His main issue was moving things past the middle phase.  But I digress.  We worked only a few sets all night.  But stayed in them a really long time progressing.  I was on fire.  I didn’t need to micromanage my student but could instead just give him small guidance moves.  He is gonna be good really soon.  I can tell.  It’s just a matter of time on the field.  So I open a demo set of two Italian girls.  Before I know it he is working the friend.  I didn’t even notice.  Really tight winging.

Set1 – My girl was cute enough.  I chatted for a while and it was going really well.  Her friend wasn’t digging my student.  Mainly a language barrier thing.  Her English was sorely lacking.  So they go off to the toilet.  When they say this I react.  Only with body language, but it is something I need to work on right now.  I got caught up between calling her out and not caring.  The two response choices.  So they go off and I assume that my bad facial response blew the set….Later on I run into them out in the smoking section while my student is talking to a stunning girl out on her own.  They are loving me and I move it forward.  My girl even has her friend take a picture of us and starts talking about facebook.  My name is so common that that’s worthless.  I’m unfindable.  So I give her my number and then go to find my student….Hours later I am taking him to another bar and we run into the girls outside another bar.  We are going to different places and I speed escalate mine.  I shove my tongue in her mouth.  She was another teeth kisser.  Why do I keep running into girls like this?  I mean who wants their tongue bitten on the first kiss?  Sigh.  So then I shove her face at my neck and tell her to bite me.  Mistake.  Holy crap I thought the mouse bit hard.  This girl was a machine.  It hurt so bad I couldn’t make a noise to stop her.  She gives me her number and reconfirms our date for the next day.  I run off with my student.  Needless to say she flaked….I needed to take her home right then.  But my duty is to my work!

Set 2 – I catch my student in set with 3 girls and a boy.  One girl is a giant.  One is short and chubby.  And one is stunning.  Somehow my student is after the giant.  Sweet.  The dude is the short one’s boyfriend.  So I start talking to the lovely one.  She is amazing.  From milton keynes. a nurse.  works on the isle of dogs.  owns scrubs.  really nice girl.  Boom!  I isolate her to the bar and escalate.  My new kick is honesty escalation.  It has been working really well.  I might write my next article about it.  Or just save it for my ebook.  We’ll see.  I tell her what I like about her and keep pushing it forward.  She drops the bf bomb.  OH and she’s a ballerina.  She promises to be my ballet buddy, but her friends are so suspicious.  They keep asking me if I kissed her.  Of course I said no.  Good thing they didn’t ask if I’d touched her boobs or she’d touched my cock. I keep working other sets with my student.  She finds me again later and is all over me.  I get her facebook info etc, but she hasn’t added me yet.  She pinkie swore she would take me to a ballet.  But I have a feeling her friends chastised the hell out of her.

Final Girl – So on the way home with my student.  To take him to the bus stop I see a girl who used to be a bartender at my favorite bar.  She is really really beautiful.  I have never really talked to her because I use the bar as a home base.  So I don’t wanna fuck it up.  She doesn’t work there anymore.  She’s from Poland.  We talk like 2 minutes and then I have to go home.  But it was going well.  I was back later and she was gone.  Shame.  I hope to see her again and push it forward.  I mean I can see her eyes right now.  Either way I’m proud of myself for not hesitating.

So I was out today with a student doing 4 hours of daygame intermixed with QnA and shopping.  I told him how I’m going to my first fetish party in a few weeks and I need to get some trousers to make my outfit complete.  We decided to go to the latex shop together to really step outside our comfort zones.  It was intense.

I tried on a couple of pairs of trousers and then he talked me into trying on a full body catsuit with shoes built in.  It really took me outside my comfort zone and was a good experience for both of us.  The lady in the shop had to help me zip the outfit over my balls and squeeze into it, but then I looked wicked futuristic and all jacked.  I can definately see the appeal.

It was so far outside my comfort zone to squeeze myself into super tight clothes and run around with my shirt off.  I am pushing my body image forward!

Yet again I recommend pushing your boundaries.  Just go out there and find the wall.

So on Friday I was teaching a 2on2 with Mystel.  Both guys really worked hard and it was cool.  We were outside taking a 5 min smoke break when a smoking hot girl opens me.  Now I had seen her earlier on in the night and I thought she was beautiful, but she was walking past holding a dudes hand.  I was instructing so I didn’t have time to give her more than a passing glance, but she registered.  I was waiting til that midnight bell of freedom to go pursue her.

She walks up and asks me to hide her as she doesn’t want her family to see her smoking.  We start chatting and Mystel runs off almost instantly to leave me alone with this girl.  She immediately tells me that she chose me because I have a beautiful smile and she likes my eyes.  She doesn’t care that I’m gay and she thinks it’s great.  Translation: It’s on.  I run my usual anti-gay routine and tell her that I’m feeling things for her and I’m really confused.  I just plow through.  I escalate and push forward.  She is really sexy and intelligent. 

I really focus on talking about her and I find out some things about her huge family of 2 brothers and 6 sisters.  I go direct and tell her how she makes me feel.  I push for the kiss but it doesn’t happen.  She tells me that she just wants to be friend.  I tell her that’s fine as long as she knows we’re going to sleep together.  She asks if I can take no for an answer.  I ask her if she means not yet and she says yes.

I am a patient man and this girl intrigues me.  She is so much less boring than most of the girls I run into in clubs around London.  She is really confident and talks about how we can go to Brazil together to detox to lose weight.  A strange future prediction.

I meet her brother and I invite them out to a party on Saturday night.  He tells me how he’s from London and can get in without my help.  Maybe he was trying to prove his status I don’t know.  I am pretty past that phase so when other people do it I don’t notice.  I am only thinking about it in retrospect.  I kissed her later in front of him I guess which I didn’t realize.

So I swap numbers with her and we set a date for Monday night on her way home from work.  I found out tonight that she had a huge fight with her brother that night and went home in a taxi rather than ride home with him.  I have a feeling he was hating on me, but she didn’t tell me for sure.  It is silly for anyone to hate me. I’m awesome.