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So I am chilling on Saturday morning and my phone starts blowing up. gsand wants to meet near Waterloo for some day game and Tea Bag is going into central for some costume shopping. I throw on my clothes, get wicked high and meet gsand. It takes ages to find him. We meet up with 7/11 after a bit too. Walking up and down the boardwalk for two hours, no hotties. Bad luck. [More]
A lot has happened in the last week and right now I’m just playing catchup. I wish I was keeping up with this as fast as things happen, but I am just getting behind. I ran into the Polish girl from last Friday and screwed up. I have handed out over 100 business cards now out there and not one has led to a phone call or email from a girl. I find that part fascinating. I had an amazing connection with a beautiful welsh girl who pinkie-promised on our date and never responded to my texts or calls. A girl on my course told me I’m fat and need to lose weight then got furious when I told her the same back. Today she was friendly as hell with me at school again. Turns out sticking to your guns makes people like you. My house mate gave my blog address to his girlfriend after I specifically asked him not to. Now it’s only a matter of time until she gets fired for reading this drivel at work. I found out that I look better than her in her own glasses. They came to see me do demos Friday night and they loved it. I was in super state but no pretty girls were there. I finally broke down and bought an eee pc to travel with. I needed something super small to keep with me for writing. I have some more interviews coming up. I got a ton of research done for my MA. I am way ahead for once in my life. Ok. That is pretty much it. Writing on this little guy is a bit of a bastard as I keep hitting the up key instead of shift. Hopefully I can retrain my hand.
I should have written this yesterday. Waiting a single day means that all the craziness of last night is now coloring my memories of Friday. Basically, I’ve come to the realization that I’ve hit the next level in game. My shit is just getting so tight. I do think it’s derivative of my growing sense of inner game. On to the tale…
I went to my new local spot for a 1on1 with a new student. Now I didn’t know anything about this dude, so I didn’t know what to expect. He was really advanced compared to most of my students and had really good inner game. His main issue was moving things past the middle phase. But I digress. We worked only a few sets all night. But stayed in them a really long time progressing. I was on fire. I didn’t need to micromanage my student but could instead just give him small guidance moves. He is gonna be good really soon. I can tell. It’s just a matter of time on the field. So I open a demo set of two Italian girls. Before I know it he is working the friend. I didn’t even notice. Really tight winging. [More]
So I was out today with a student doing 4 hours of daygame intermixed with QnA and shopping. I told him how I’m going to my first fetish party in a few weeks and I need to get some trousers to make my outfit complete. We decided to go to the latex shop together to really step outside our comfort zones. It was intense.
I tried on a couple of pairs of trousers and then he talked me into trying on a full body catsuit with shoes built in. It really took me outside my comfort zone and was a good experience for both of us. The lady in the shop had to help me zip the outfit over my balls and squeeze into it, but then I looked wicked futuristic and all jacked. I can definately see the appeal.
It was so far outside my comfort zone to squeeze myself into super tight clothes and run around with my shirt off. I am pushing my body image forward!
Yet again I recommend pushing your boundaries. Just go out there and find the wall.
So on Friday I was teaching a 2on2 with Mystel. Both guys really worked hard and it was cool. We were outside taking a 5 min smoke break when a smoking hot girl opens me. Now I had seen her earlier on in the night and I thought she was beautiful, but she was walking past holding a dudes hand. I was instructing so I didn’t have time to give her more than a passing glance, but she registered. I was waiting til that midnight bell of freedom to go pursue her.
She walks up and asks me to hide her as she doesn’t want her family to see her smoking. We start chatting and Mystel runs off almost instantly to leave me alone with this girl. She immediately tells me that she chose me because I have a beautiful smile and she likes my eyes. She doesn’t care that I’m gay and she thinks it’s great. Translation: It’s on. I run my usual anti-gay routine and tell her that I’m feeling things for her and I’m really confused. I just plow through. I escalate and push forward. She is really sexy and intelligent. [More]
So I went out Friday and Saturday night coaching. I will write about Friday night with Helicase soon enough. But for now I wanna write about Saturday since I met a cool girl and got her pic. I went out with Cajun and Kisser and the guys from TSB, as well as three students. The TSB guys were cool as hell and it was really nice to spend time in the field with Cajun. It was really casual and I spent most of the night just winging one student. I can’t really remember a lot of the details. He opened the set and was doing alright, but he needed a wing to really open doors for him. I think because he was new he didn’t think he deserved the cutest girl of the group. I wasn’t that into her. I dunno. Everyone else thought she was really cute, but if you’re on the Lounge you get to decide for yourself. [More]
by Paladin | October 4, 2008 | In Day 2, appearance, emotions, field reports, inner game, instructing, kclose, natural game, number close, personal growth
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This is gonna be a long one. So many things came together last night. It was my first night with my new student, who has put me on retainer. It was my first night in a high end club. It was my first date with HBprincess. Wow. I just had to think of a nickname for her. I almost used her real name. I don’t think of her as a target etc at all dudes. Anyways.
My new student put me on retainer and paid all up front Thursday night. He is a really high end dude and wants to meet classy, high end girls, which is a little outside my wheelhouse. So I felt like it would be important for me to really dress the part. Normally, I just dress like the rockstar dj that I am. Cool tshirt and super tight jeans with cool accesories. But I felt like I should step up my game a notch. So I called my man Virgo, who wears really class stuff all the time. He sent me to Zara and a few secret tailor shops he likes. I called him basically every five minutes for advice on what to buy. I ended up with 2 Cavalli shirts, 4 really nice dress shirts from Zara, a pair of nice black trousers, a new belt, 2 skinny ties, and a pear of pajama pants for winter. Suddenly, I have a really cool wardrobe! I haven’t bought myself nice clothes before. I have always had to wait for my dad to visit to acquire nice new clothes. [More]
So I ran my first bootcamp last week. It sold out in a two hours. I even had extra students, so I extended it to two nights. The first night I had 4 students and 2 guest instructors, Mystel and CrossFire. I gave a short talk on Shane-Game concepts and honesty game. I talked for about 20 minutes, because in-field work is far more important. We all went upstairs to get started in the club and one student said he was going to the bathroom. I never saw or heard from him again. I called and texted but no reply. I can only assume that it was an attack of AA. It’s really a shame because I could have helped him a lot.
So the other guys worked really hard. My pivot showed them the power of social proof and really shone. She was only there for the first hour, but she really accomplished a lot. My students went from being unable to open, to locking into sets for hours at a time. Mystel and I had to take shifts watching and waiting. It was like a stakeout. My other student was far more advanced. He was blowing open sets from word one. With him I really worked on sexual escalation. He did everything that I said. It was really great to have a student who just trusted me. He exploded. He was isolating, escalating and generally tearing it up in the club. He really advanced a lot.
Overall the experience was exhausting, but really worth it. I hope to do more and more teaching in the time leading up to the SuperConference in Los Angeles. I have a big talk next week that I think is really going to be awesome. I gave the rough version to Virgo and he absolutely loved it.
Normally I try to write about each different event as it happens, but the bootcamp with Sheriff is now over and 3 day are all broiling around in my head. I will do my best to give a cohesive account of the events that occurred.
On Friday, I spent the morning recovering from the insanity of the Rockstar bootcamp. Sheriff asked me to make it to the seminar part of the bootcamp, so that the students could see my face and find me easily during in-field in the club. It was cool to see a roomful of fresh young faces. So many of the students couldn’t believe that I was sitting there just a few months ago. Like everyone else in game, they had heard of my infamous bootcamp experience. It’s nice to be known. I spent some time chatting to the guys, then the instructors headed off to the club. One student came with us. I taught him some basic streetgame and he number-closed a girl in like two minutes. Maybe I do know what I’m talking about…. [More]
