There are 5 reasons why every pickup artist should go to a bar alone to meet women. Hunting in packs is a classic mistake and it's time for you to learn to avoid such a lame mistake. There is a reason that we all think snipers are so cool. They hunt alone. It's all or nothing and it's on there shoulders. They have no one Read More
Two weeks my mom was in the hospital for what we thought was a stroke. She was really far away visiting one of my sisters, so I was feeling kinda down. I called the two giants to come console me over a few cocktails that night. I just kinda didn't want to think about things. So I drink alone for an hour or two until they get off work and they show Read More
I have always loved having my picture take. It's why my personal Facebook page has about 5000 photos and I have almost 3000 of me and my oneitis. That's right! It might be a record in the dating world for most pictures with the girl who broke your heart. So when a photojournalist emailed me asking if he could spend a week following me and documenting my life, of course Read More
How to Send the Perfect 1st Text After You Get a Woman's Number This is a guest post from Jordan Harbinger, a friend and fellow dating coach over at The Art of Charm. Here's My Process For Following Up With A Woman After I Get Her Number You aren't the only guy going after the girls you're interested in. While that statement is exceptionally simple, it is also crucial to keep in mind if Read More
How to Get a Girlfriend with the OSS Join us for a webinar on February 15th @ 7pm EST In honor of Valentine's Day - my favorite holiday for being single - I will be hosting a very special webinar for a select few members of my following. I have already emailed this invitation to the hundreds of people on my list, but unfortunately GoToWebinar only allows a small amount of people Read More
One of the hardest things for new guys to figure out is exactly where they fit into the hierarchy of the venues they go to. I was out with some new guys in Nashville last night and I saw this happening for them. As I woke up this morning in bed with two girls who were both several inches taller as well as stronger than me, former natioanal athletes, I decided Read More
// There are a lot of ways to start a conversation with a woman, but when you're trying to pickup women the wrong opener or pick up lines can be deadly. You should think of your opener, or pickup line like you do the headline of a newspaper article. The whole point of the opener is to open the conversation - to get her to read the first paragraph of Read More
The Best Pickup Artists in the World
There are tons of "gurus" out there espousing to be pickup artists, puas, don juans, masters of seduction etc. I am fortunate enough to have met a TON of these guys. I have met and seen in field BOTH of this years #1 pickup artists. Actually there are three "official" top ten pickup artist lists out there and I have been in the club
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What is Social Proof? Social proof is based on how our minds work. If we see a group of people we look for similarities. Our brains are always looking for short cuts. If you see a guy standing with 20 scientists in lab coats, you will assume he is a scientist. We really hone this way of thinking in high school, where we really began to lump people into groups. Depending on Read More
Recently someone was asking my how I feel about qualification. In the past I have talked about how I think this phase is uneccessary. And I want to delve a little deeper into that today. I think asking inane questions you don't care about just to make a girl jump through hoops and build compliance is lame. "Can you cook?" is the worst question ever. Let's get the the meat of the Read More
