So I am chilling on Saturday morning and my phone starts blowing up. gsand wants to meet near Waterloo for some day game and Tea Bag is going into central for some costume shopping. I throw on my clothes, get wicked high and meet gsand. It takes ages to find him. We meet up with 7/11 after a bit too. Walking up and down the boardwalk for two hours, no hotties. Bad luck. [More]
So I wake up around noonish on Monday. My head is on fire and I don’t know how I got from the elevator to the bed. There is no one in the room so for a second I panic. Where are Beeballer and Soul? But they are just sleeping in the lounge to hide from my snoring. How rude!
Beeballer wants to stroll around old town and we can’t wake up Soul. Se we go clomping out into the rain. It’s miserable out. We take the Subway and they let us ride free both ways because they think we are idiots. Hey whatever works! [More]
We wake up around noon, all feeling rough as hell. I’m 28 now. Holy crap. I used to make fun of my friend for being old when he was 27 and now I have surpassed him. He’s still alive so I guess he’s still old, relative to me. We start setting up for the party and then we remember that we are lazy as hell and get out of there so Max and his crew can set up. We head into town looking for a costume shop and some ladies. Soul talks Beeballer through the basics of his daygame model and they start lookiing for sets. It’s kind of hard to maintain parity in oddnumbered groups, so I am kinda hanging back and doing my own thing. I am really into indirect Day Game and improving it. I just find going direct during the day absolutely terrifying.
It’s something I really need to break through. Fear is standing between what I want and what I have. I really don’t like that. Life really is about conquering fear. Like in that terrible Billy Crystal movie ten years ago that nobody saw. You just have to face it down. The only thing I’m afraid of is damage to my ego. My ego is the barrier between myself and my success. I am in a war to destroy that ego. It is really hard, but it is the next level.
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It’s Sunday morning, so like usual I am playing catch up on my blog. Thursday was amazing and challenging in so many ways. I woke up at ten and it took me almost three hours to get Soul out of bed. It didn’t help that every time I woke him up, he would ask what time it was and I would say noon. I kept getting my timezones mixed up, so he thought no time had passed.
He finally gets up, we gets dressed and takes me into town. It’s hard to believe how many beautiful girls there are here. At first we are just strolling and getting used to the insanely cold weather. But after a few hours of chilling and chatting, he starts opening sets. For some reason it appears to be Mother-Daughter thursday. The first set he opens he has me walk up with him. The girl is really stunning, but her mother is having none of it. He really plows through and we are standing there for a good five minutes. I just keep turning redder and redder. I am so far outside my comfort zone. [More]
So it’s 1pm and today has already been a lovely day. I got up at the insane hour of seven. I didn’t even know there was a seven in the morning. I got dressed and rushed to my train. It took me an hour to cross the city and visit the first client with my new firm. Substitute teaching can be quite intense, even at a language school.
I got there and everything was great. The teacher had prepared an extensive, but boring, lesson for me. My agency, the head of the school and the normal teacher all warned me that these students were terrible and really ill-behaved.
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So today so many things happened. I had that crazy night last night. I forgot to shower this morning, so when I got to the talk at Mr M’s. Nobody wanted to sit near me. I don’t know how I didn’t notice. It was blazing hot today so I kept re-sweating. Needless to say I saw insane amounts of beautiful women on the street, but I continue to have my limiting belief about smelling like a sewer. For some reason. So after the talks end, I throw on my giant pack and head towards home. Of course, the tube is packed to the gills. I have to take 3 trains instead of the usual two and I keep ending up near girls I want to open, but it is hot down there and I have a massive stench. The trains are all running late and a 15 [More]
So after waking up at Sasha’s all I wanted to do is go to bed. But of course nobody ever lets that happen. We head into central, Sasha Ziggy and I, to hit up The Natural talk. Just before we are about to go in, I run into Optimistic and he’s like let’s just do one set each and then go in. We end up walking around for hours and working on our set opening. We talk about each other’s issues and just hang out. Once we shift from two guys hunting for girls to just two guys hanging out, his game goes through the roof. It was really great. We were in more than a dozen conversations with different girls. So I will try to focus on the highlights.
In Coven Garden I see a pair of cute Japanese girls. I get Optimistic to ask them for directions because they have a map out. The map is of course in Japanese, so I immediately start asking questions in Japanese. They were really great. We chatted to them for about 10 minutes. They didn’t have mobiles yet, so the girl I liked wrote my number down in her little book. We messed up setting up an instant date and ejected too soon. This was my fault not Optimistic’s. I have never gamed in Japanese before and I’m still really not used to day game. Even though I’m starting to have some really good success. So I really need to focus more on the goal and pushing pushing pushing.
The only other good set worth remembering was one girl. I was standing there with like 5 pickup dudes when a really beautiful girl walked by. I ran after her and just told her that she was beautiful and I couldn’t let her walk by without telling her. She really loved it. I got the reaction that Soul always talks about. A big part for me is that I only open girls I’m really attracted to during the daytime. I chatted to her 2-3 minutes, which is quite long for me. She asked me where I work, which is a huge sign she’s attracted. I kind of failed to get her number or push for an instant date, but after she walked away I felt really nice. Sweet inside. I could tell she’s the kind of girl that I want to meet. I have determined that my two main attraction triggers beyond the physical are honesty and sweetness.
So I’m on the train with Keychain. He and Optimist each opened a street set.I chickened out. And I’m supposed to be the instructor. So we go up and down the train and don’t really see anything. I see one dark girl with black hair, but she’s asleep and there is a bag on the seat near her.We get to the end of the train and can’t find nothing, so we finally end up making this dude give up his bag’s seat. I am sitting directly across from her. I am semi-attracted, but I have never run a “sleeping set.” So I am just telling Keychain about game and my life etc. He’s a new project rockstar dude and I’m helping to record that event a lot… Anyways, we are across from this girl a good 20 minutes, but I’ll be damned if she wouldn’t just wake up! I couldn’t tell if she was listening in to our conversation, but I also didn’t care. [More]
