There is nothing quite like a woman scorned.  The irony is that i didn't scorn anyone.  As I wrote a while back my ex girlfriend broke up with me about 2 months after we had already broken up.  I tried to explain my inability to have a long distance relationship and I guess I just wasn't clear.  I don't know how that happened.  But later she read about it on my blog and was somehow totally surprised.  She knew about it from when we were dating, so I didn't think anything was a surprise.

I don't even have any posts about our relationship on here.  I originally wrote a post about our first night together, but I took it down when I realized that I was having real feelings for her.  But I guess that's neither here nor there.

After breaking up with me in a vicious email which ended in her calling me a pervert, she a week later let me have it on im.  I really wish I could feel sad about the loss of our relationship, but for me it was already over.  It ended when we broke up the first time.  She sent me one final email asking me to delete the host of naked pictures of her I have.  I don't really look at them anymore, but come on.

A week after that she started telling lies about me at my old job.  She told them that we started dating while I was working there, which simply wasn't true.  I asked her out after my last day there.  It was exactly why I decided to go for it.

Two weeks ago I come into work just like any other normal day and boom.  My boss rolls in with a lady from hr.  They start throwing out some really messed up accusations at me.  It was a real treat.  They sent me home for a week of paid leave.  While they "investigated."  They never actually talked to me about anything.  The hr lady said she would let me have a background check to prove my innocence.  But of course she never sent me the link to fill it out.

Later in the week I received an email accusing me of being inappropriate at my current job.  Again no explanation was given of the charges.  They finally called me in over a week later.  Like I can't smell a bushwacking.  I had already chatted to my lawyers and knew they were being totally unprofessional in their technique.  But hey, I was already starting to hate the job.

So I finally met the head of my department.  They decided to fire me for me blog.  As you know this blog doesn't have my real name on it.  In the meeting the HR lady lied and said that's how they knew about it.  They claimed that the other investigations were just a coincidence.  AKA I was innocent but they just wanted a reason to fire me.  The HR lady said I chose not to accept the background check and when I asked her why she didn't send it to me, she admitted that she knew I hadn't received it.

Overall, it was a boring experience.  I thought getting fired would be an emotional experience, but really my life is already moving forward.  I am mostly just sharing because let's be honest it's a good story.  I might start writing more about my experience and talking about where I actually worked later on.  For now I have no heart for vengeance.  I just don't care.

So my ex girlfriend got me fired from my job.  In the end the reason they gave was that I am doing "work of a sexual nature."  I make no apologies for the life I live.  I tried to keep my work and private life separate but hey I guess those days are over. 

And yes.  I still have a stack of pics of my ex girlfriend.  Will I post them on the internet?  Right now I can't be bothered.  It's just a shame that she misunderstood me and decided to try and mess with my life in a major way.  I didn't even sleep with any other girls in between when I thought we broke up and when she did. 

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So last week I got a really long breakup email from my x in London.  I really thought I was clear that long distance stuff doesn't work for me, but obviously I wasn't.  So when she read my feelings on here, she got really hurt and broke up with me.  I wish I could say that I felt really bad when she dumped me.  But I kinda felt nothing.  It's hard for me to have deep long distance emotions.

For me love is a face to face kinda thing.  I mean I really did love her and I'm sad that she's hurt.  But I guess we weren't meant for each other.  I hope she fins what she's looking for.

As always I try to be super honest here about what I'm going through and what is happening.

Maybe my next relationship will work out better.  I've already met a few cool girls in this town and I'll write about that later.

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I have been back in my hometown for a week now.  I'm a little hesitant to say where I am, because I have some internet stalkers on a few weird forums who have been talking about my family etc.  So for now I'll let you guys figure it out.

Anyways I think about my x like every day.  It's really strange because technically we are broken up.  But in my heart I just miss her so bad.  Now at least I know that I am capable of loving someone.  The thought of eternal monogamy is pretty terrifying though.  But I guess I'll figure it out.  Just not quite yet….

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I went out for my 3rd date with the German photographer on Friday.  Now logistics kept us from sleeping together on the first two dates, but 3 is as far as I'll go with a girl without some sweet loving.  We planned our Friday date almost 2 weeks in advance.  This girl is always so busy with art projects and school.

Thursday night she texts to say that she has to go home at 11.  I'm like why are you changing the plan the day before.  I consider cutting her loose for being so lame.  She is complaining about the last train etc.  I tell her she can just crash at mine as my house mate's away and she starts freaking out.  There are tons of signs that I should have cancelled the date I know….

After a text argument, kind of, we just stick with the original plan.  She was talking about going out another night or something.  I mean it was all just so lame.  So we meet at like 6 or something on Friday.  I'm thirty minutes late and I just don't care.  I guess it's good because I wanted to start showing up to things late this year to see if I could do it.  She's already drunk so I have a shot and a drink with her.  We are chatting and it's ok.  She just talks about work and how stressed she is constantly.

I am kinda tired from the lesbian sleep over, so I don't steer the conversation away from her boringass topics as much as I should. After a while she wants to grab dinner somewhere.  I never do dinner dates.  I also never do Friday dates.  Whoops.  We start looking for a Japanese place.  I'm thinking traditional Japanese place, where we can snuggle into a corner.  She drags us into a place that is exactly like wagamama.  I tell her it's a terrible date restaurant.  She ignores me and says she wants to eat there. I don't care enough to resist.

I wish I could say that I was bringing my A game, but I was barely there.  I was thinking about how she just isn't pretty enough for me and I can't believe she keeps rocking similar outfits when we go out.  She has these giant red feather earings she keeps wearing.  They are so attention grabbing that she shouldn't wear them on all our dates.  I mean change clothes.  I am drifting through our date, kinda wanting to have some sex but not willing to work for it on any level.

All during dinner she is yapping about work and I keep trying to cut the thread but she is like a cat with a ball of yarn.  She keeps wanting to talk about boring and stressful things.  This is really sexy for a girl to do, let me tell you.  At one point she says  she knows she should be having a good time, but she is stressed and can't take her mind off what she has to do Saturday morning.  I'm like baby, you are at dinner with a really cool, good looking guy.  Why don't you focus on that and have a good time?  She says she'll try but in our hearts we both know she's lying.

After dinner we both go to the bathroom.  Separately you perverts.  I think about just leaving.  I'm so bored.  When she comes out front she starts trying to give me the brush off.  It takes 5 minutes for me to realize she wants to end the date.  She is talking about a lack of vibe or something.  I thought about giving her a debrief on how she ruined out date and is too dumb to realize it.  I wanted to tell her that our date sucked because she never stopped complaining about work, took us to a bad restaraunt and was poorly dressed and also she had established a curfew up front to put more pressure on us.  But I didn't say anything.  All I thought was, I don't feel anything.  I am becoming an emotional terminator.

So five minutes later I met up with my lesbian gang around the corner and then I was chilling with a really tall beautiful swiss girl. It was a nice night, but I was too tired to release the energy necessary to capture her.  So I went home early.

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A few years ago I would have stressed over every single unreturned text.  Now I send out a couple hundred messages a week to girls and mates, so one can slip through the cracks.  It takes me a long time to notice if someone is actively trying to pull away.

No idea why it ended with her.  I wish I could say that I cared, but I’m already on to the next girl.  It’s kind of a shame how girls become so replaceable after a time.  If I leave my house I meet someone beautiful.  I don’t know if this is a good or a bad thing.  I don’t pursue relationships like I used to.

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