What is Social Proof? Social proof is based on how our minds work. If we see a group of people we look for similarities. Our brains are always looking for short cuts. If you see a guy standing with 20 scientists in lab coats, you will assume he is a scientist. We really hone this way of thinking in high school, where we really began to lump people into groups. Depending on Read More
First Encounter So I'm out with my bro in law, well it's my sister's boyfriend but it's super long term, and we hit the bars on Friday night. I'll shorten my usual lengthy intro and get to it. I am just hanging out with him and not working girls but of course I end up talking to a professional sports team cheerleader. I don't wanna say which team or too much Read More
So many guys have come to me with this question. It happens to me a lot and I have learned the causes and the solutions, so it's time to share with you! Part 1 - Why does she say it? There are several behaviours that guys develop when they are trying to get better with women that tend to confuse a woman's gaydar. The first thing that happens is the Read More
So last night I went out with Ghost to me new local. It was heaving out and about. There was some kind of festivale on. We met up with Virgo, who was out on a date. All of the people who were supposed to meet up with us ended up backing out. Oh well. The music was good and the vibe was chill. No Brotherhood guys were around
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Last night 5.0 ordered us out to a bar full of Americans. They are the bane of my existence. I brought out Mystel and my housemate Ghost for his first time in the field. He has never seen me in action. The bar was full of low-value Americans. I was really stressed out as soon as I got there, caught between a desire to perform for my housemate and a Read More
Sheriff was the first instructor I approach coached for, but it was really a bird out of the nest thing. I never had any official training or instruction in the art. I just kind of fell into it. I guess with five years of professional teaching experience and a moderate skill level with women, Sheriff knew I could figure it out. Last night we really went through the fundamentals of the Read More
As you know I lived in Japan for two years and it has massively affected my gaming style and fashion. Today I want to talk to you about one of the most powerful words I learned during my time in Japan. Skinship: Human to human touch. In Japan there is a great deal of emphasis placed on this. And it is sorely lacking in most western cultures.... My Read More
This is one my many current sticking points. Sometimes I feel so sexual and sometimes I feel so not. I have been working on Cajun's theory of body language. He suggests studying Jim Morrison to really see how to be sexual without doing anything. It's really powerful but also difficult. Whenever I run my Jim Morrison people ask why I'm so tired. It takes Read More
