This is gonna be a long one. So many things came together last night. It was my first night with my new student, who has put me on retainer. It was my first night in a high end club. It was my first date with HBprincess. Wow. I just had to think of a nickname for her. I almost used her real name. I don’t think of her as a target etc at all dudes. Anyways.
My new student put me on retainer and paid all up front Thursday night. He is a really high end dude and wants to meet classy, high end girls, which is a little outside my wheelhouse. So I felt like it would be important for me to really dress the part. Normally, I just dress like the rockstar dj that I am. Cool tshirt and super tight jeans with cool accesories. But I felt like I should step up my game a notch. So I called my man Virgo, who wears really class stuff all the time. He sent me to Zara and a few secret tailor shops he likes. I called him basically every five minutes for advice on what to buy. I ended up with 2 Cavalli shirts, 4 really nice dress shirts from Zara, a pair of nice black trousers, a new belt, 2 skinny ties, and a pear of pajama pants for winter. Suddenly, I have a really cool wardrobe! I haven’t bought myself nice clothes before. I have always had to wait for my dad to visit to acquire nice new clothes.
So when I get home I put on the Cavalli shirt. I was so nervous. It’s so easy to think it’s not me. But I looked amazing. Dudes I can’t tell you how important it is to feel really hot and sexy when you go out. It makes your inner game so much tighter. So I wore my new awesome outfit for my new student and also for me. I wanted to be able to wing him and make him look good in any social setting.
I met up with him at his apartment before heading out. Wow. His apartment is really beautiful. He has an amazing view of the whole city and he is right in the middle of everything. He has an unbelievable rooftop terrace that he wants to throw a party on. I was getting turned on. (that’s a joke for those that don’t know me.) We had a really long chat about my history and then about his history. We really connected with exactly what he wants to work on and change about his life. It was just so casual. The guy is wicked normal and already really calibrated.
We head out to the pre-bar to meet up with the girls, Mr M and LondonSoul. They are off with Sebastian Drake and Switch, who might join us later. Because we were going to a fancy club, we needed girls to get in with. So I texted every girl in my phone. From the seven who I thought were coming, only 2 showed up. Se la vi. I’ve only lived in London a few weeks, I got more work to do! So the two girls are Crossfire and a girl I number closed last Thursday.
I was out at a student night with some girls from my school that night. I saw this girl outside with her two friends. She is petite. Really, really pretty. So I walk up and start vibing etc. There is a creepy guy hitting on her friend, so I start talking about that. And how it’s horrible when guys hit on girls in the club. I quickly get her number as they are about to bounce. I honestly thought it was a cold number. But she has been texting me back all week and invited me by her house sometime and to go swing dancing on monday. So I felt we had a good vibe. Anyways, she was so pumped to go to the club with us!
She shows up at the pre-bar first and is texting me to see where I am. I wasn’t 100% sure she was going to show up and to be honest I wasn’t exactly sure what she was going to look like. I mean I knew I would recognize her, but I was wondering if she was really pretty or if it was just my 3am vision last week. So my student and I walk up to her outside the bar. Dudes. She is so beautiful. My heart skipped a beat. She is a mixture of like 4 different sexy races and she got the best from all of them. Needless to say, my stock went up with my student.
The three of us were in the bar just vibing and really connecting. I was really just being myself, but assuming higher value and attraction. She told me that she wasn’t sure I was gonna show up or if I was gonna show up alone and say my friends couldn’t make it, that kinda thing. I found her nervous honesty really refreshing. She seems to simply not play games. Which is nice. It means I don’t have to either. She really liked my student and Crossfire when she showed up. Having really cool friends really builds value in a major way. Cool people have really cool friends. She is really honest about her imperfections too. Everytime we would use a word she didn’t know, she would just say I don’t know that word. With no expectation.
Sometimes I forget that I’m a major nerd. I mean my iq is 140 and I’m 27 and a university offered me a job as a teacher. I don’t care that she doesn’t know some nerd words. That’s whatever. What flipped my attraction switch was her willingness to be vulnerable and just admit she didn’t know. Most people won’t do that. It’s like I was saying to my student earlier, all the stuff that I teach to use on girls always works on me. I found her vulnerability really sexy. We built a lot of rapport talking about her family and childhood etc. I really found it all fascinating. Also, she can only have 2 glasses of wine before she gets wasted. Now who do I know with a tolerance like that……? (the secret answer is me)
So while this is going on, my student and Crossfire are there and really connecting. I’m still trying to hire her as my assistant coach. But she won’t have none of it. If I don’t snap her up, I’m pretty sure that one of the bigger companies will. Oh well. So it goes. An hour and a half late, we finally hear from Mr M and Soul. They are off trying to do street game somewhere. I swear I saw murder is Crossfire’s eyes. She doesn’t put up with any crap. I just wrap my arms around my girl and follow. It was really cold out and she needed my chewbacca warmth.
We catch up with the boys and Soul is like holy crap man, who’s the girl? He also starts asking me of a spitroast is on the menu. I tell him to politely f off. This one is all mine. I mean I actually like this girl a lot. So we are all in the club, just vibing and having a really good time. I mostly focus on my date and all of my friends really help my student. I mean he was out with some of the top guys in the world and he had an amazing time. Just opening sets and trying new things. Really just working on being comfortable. He is going to be so good soon and that is going to make me look so good. So every little while, I peel away from my girl and talk to him to just keep his vibe going. He really got a lot from my energy and my date vibe. The guy and me are really on the same wavelength. So he was tearing it up in the club and he also winged me really well. I just couldn’t get the kiss off my girl for the life of me.
I wanted to make my student look awesome and gain value from the girls in our group. So I start taking pictures of him with me, him with the girls etc. Then he grabs the camera and starts taking pictures of me and my girl. He knows enough to know that 3 is the magic number. She finally kisses me on the 3rd picture. I mean I had tried five times already, but this was the one that finally worked. It was great.
She eventually had to leave because of work in the morning. I invited her over, but she didn’t have work clothes with her. Damn logistics!! So she left with Crossfire to catch her bus and I spent more time with my student debriefing and trying to talk to Soul and Mr M. Of course, while I wasn’t paying attention they’d gotten wasted, so I was really on a different page. My student and I left shortly thereafter and just talked through his night and what he’s working on. He had an amazing time and I can tell he’s going to get really, really good. It’s cool.
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