Ok. So I’m drunk again.  It’s 2am.  The Mouse just left my house after a badass date.  I’m not gonna dance around it…we rode the train all the way to LMR town.  Sigh.

So I partied with her hot friend last night and the girl loved me and gave me Mouse’s number today.  Like I suspected Mouse doesn’t do any pursuing even though I didn’t have her number.  So I tried to call today and caught the machine.  I threw her a text and we started texting back and forth.

I was out with Beeballer and LondonPlayboy when she started replying.  No matter what I wrote her texts were one or two words back.  I followed LPs wisdom and pulled off a date tonight.  We met in central and at first there was that awkward do we kiss moment…I messed it up or not I dunno but I went in to kiss her on the cheek.  We hit a pub and just chatted and I told her about my work and teaching game etc.  She was fascinated but I only let her talk about it for a few minutes.  I was more interested in her life.

We have almost too much in common.  She is into dragons, wizards, vampires, costumes, masked balls, badboy movies that I like, she is a secret nerd, she’s jewish like me, she doesn’t like to play games and is really into honesty, and she has read Ender’s Game.  I thought she was making some of her answers up.

After one drink I bounced her to the bar near my house…a ten minute walk and a ten minute train ride away.  LP is a genius.  I just did what he told me to do, unsolicited of course.  She was so comfortable with me.  I kissed her in between bars and it just set the tone.  We basically built comfort and were honest and made out and got drunk.  We bounced to my favorite bar in the world.  We danced a lot.  She explained in more detail her vampire fetish.

We set up some other dates for the future.  She wanted to dance more and we made out.  She bit me.  Vampire style.  Now I am all about trying tons of new things right now and in principle it was sexy as hell and I felt all taken and stuff, but dammit that bastard hurt.  But I think her releasing her sexuality is really awesome.

At one point on the dancefloor I tell her I need to pee.  She’s like I’m not dancing alone, I’ll come with you.  This bar was full of sleazy dudes for some reason tonight so I didn’t want to have to leave her alone anyways.  So we go downstairs and I try to drag her into the toilets….turns out she actually needed to pee.  And of course about 5 guys show up after she’s gone in.  So the boys isn’t empty anymore.

She tells me at some point that she’s not sleeping with me tonight.  I like to hear that!  So I know she is deciding if she will have sex with me.  She is like I’m not coming home with you.  She stays too late and of course has to try and figure out the night bus situation.  So I tell her we need to look on my computer.  Boom.  We get into bed.  I get a little over the shirt booby time and a lot of making out, but that’s it.

I even request a courtesy handjob and she’s like I gotta go.  She is super paranoid about STDs and told me she won’t sleep with a guy she’s not in a relationship with, but that she doesn’t want to be in a relationship right now.  She is really paranoid about sleeping with other people that I sleep with.  So I told her that I’m not sleeping with anyone else right now.  We agreed that we can sleep together without a commitment, but that if we shag other people we’ll tell each other before we sleep together again.

Progress.

So I waited with her at the bus stop and made out the whole time.  She has agreed to a date for Thursday.  I’m pretty pumped about that.  I have no idea if I’ll sleep with her, but I am enjoying the challenge.  For now.

There is other stuff she said that I got mixed up when it happened so I’ll put it here.  She asked if there is a point at which I get fed up with a girl for not banging me and cut her off.  I told her yes, but that I don’t know when that point is.  Which is true.  I haven’t hit that point with a girl yet.

I asked her what she hates.  She said brussel sprouts and then took it back and said she doens’t really hate them, just really dislikes them.  She has a really positive energy.

I was really tired for our date, so I think that affected my energy all night and kept me from pushing for pure physical escalation.  Also, I’m too into her so I’ll prolly fuck it up.