So often we focus on doing attractive things when we meet a girl in a club or on the street. We miss the traits that are truly attractive. I wrote in my book all about my 3 core elements of attraction: Honesty, Passion and Self-Confidence. I don’t want to go over those again and again. Instead I want to look at the next layer of attraction with you for a moment. This layer is based upon some of my recent seductions and experience.
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This is probably the best movie for people in the scene. It is simply amazing. It really shows the way a guy can interact with his oneitis, the way he controls her without realizing it, the ways to escape your past and the power of friendship.
I hate the title of this movie and that kept me from watching it for a long time. It is designed to catch the attention of teenage girls and I believe that is the intended audience for the movie, but the film is simply awesome. I am not going to break down the plot there. The truth is you will either trust me and watch this movie or not. It still blows my mind how many guys want to get good with women, yet refuse to watch The L Word. I have been screaming the name of that show for a full year now. I bet you haven’t watched a single episode have you? I don’t think anyone should be allowed to complain about escalation until they have watched at least 3 seasons. It’s simply necessary.
But this movie is amazing at showing the power friendship can play in social dynamics. The sweetness of this movie is really inspiring. If you want to really understand how relationships blossom in a dynamic way, watch this movie. It is really powerful and moving. You will learn a lot about all of the other prerequisites of game too, don’t worry. It has a ton of frame control, shit tests and locational comfort.
Like I said, I watched this movie for the 2nd time last night. There is about 20 minutes I would like to cut out of the movie, as one character is just really annoying to me. But I skip through her scenes and it’s fine now. I think the most powerful lesson comes from the last lines of the movie. The girl says “Are you sad that we missed it?” and the boy responds with “We didn’t miss it. This IS it.”
He is so right. Often we are so unable to live in the moment as we focus on what isn’t happening in our lives. Concerts are awesome. I love them. I go all the time. What is really important is the emotions we share and the impact we have on the world. I recommended this movie on the London forum recently. Something tells me a lot of guys are missing this amazing movie. And that is a shame. Because this is it.
So after she snuck out while I was asleep, I was uncertain about seeing the Czech girl again. I wasn’t even sure if I would ever hear from her again. So I threw her a text to see if she was ok, made it home etc. She texted back that she hadn’t wanted to wake me while I was sleeping. I told her that was really sweet and I left it there. I think we all know why she didn’t wake me up. It was a damn prison break.
So I texted her again a day later here and there and I set up a date for monday night after a short 1on1 with a student. We met at 9 and had a single drink in a bar. We chilled and it was nice. Unfortunately, I finally run into the Italian girl I saw a few weeks ago when I’m with this girl. The Italian girl is so beautiful and I can see the jealousy in her eyes. I don’t know if that set is dead, but I am trying to avoid gaming one girl while on a date with another. I mean a guy has to have SOME limits don’t he? [More]
In one night I gained access to a new social tier and I had an amazing date with a really sweet girl. It was awesome. The promoter I met through High Roller hit me up this week and invited me to Jalouse. He said could have the run of the table with 3 friends if I bring 10 girls. I text my man Mr M and he says let’s do it. So me, him and Daxx decide to rock out. We end up rolling up with more than 30 girls. The girl running the line LOVED me. It was so badass.
All the guys at the table loved me and texted me within 24 hours. I have some new really cool contacts in London and Brighton now. Basically rich cool guys who seem to like hot women. Go figure. The night was awesome and now I have access to another club that is member’s only except for this one promoter. It’s so cool to make friends. And not have to spend cash to get there. [More]
I am proud of all of my ex-students, but the one who shines the most is my man October. He did a single lesson with me and became a machine. His blog is basically my favorite one to read. He is having threesomes and skinny dipping parties constantly. So when he told me he was coming down for the Mehow conference I knew we needed to link up. [More]
It took 2 weeks of high angle text game to get a date out of the Author. She has amazing blue eyes that pierce right through me. I made some serious tactical mistakes in setting up the date, that will reveal themselves throughout the story. I finally got the date when she said to meet up on Friday. Of course Friday morning I read my man Tenmagnet’s post on Dating Amushes. This is one of the best articles on dating and date mistakes I’ve read in AGES. I should not have let her set the date for Friday night. It messed up my chance to meet and chill with the legend, Zan.
So we meet up at 7pm on a Friday night. She looks amazing, except for she is rocking a mustache. This is my personal pet peeve for women. I have have really been paying attention since this date and a LOT of women are rocking cookie dusters. I try to ignore these things, but damn hers was pretty much a Tom Selleck situation.
To be honest I was able to put it aside and plow through the date. I don’t really have the strength to go through moment by moment of what happened. Basically she spent the whole night picking at my frame. I am used to major frame assault and tests. Waht I am not used to is this tactic. For example, when we went into the 2nd bar of the night I didn’t offer to pay for her drink. I just don’t roll like that. The girl has a high paying mayfair job and can support herself. I don’t pay for a girl as it sets the wrong frame. I don’t mind doing rounds like normal people. [More]
Easy to say, but let’s be honest – Hard to do! If you can overcome jealousy, it will change your life. Don’t be fooled into thinking I have conquered jealousy, but I have certainly beaten it back. A few years ago I was a level-1 jealous dude. I hated anyone who talked to my oneitis. It was a deep fiery rage. I thought she was banging all these dudes behind my back. (of course she actually was….)
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For me this show was such an addiction. It’s basically mindless drivel. I used to listen to it on the train, while I was playing video games and just when I was walking around the city. It’s not evil or anything. I don’t have a problem with the filth etc. Like most people who complain about this show do. It’s something else. [More]
